How to protect the watch when face to face trade?

[henryouyang]

1.Should I let him to inspect the watch on his hand?

2.Should I let him to try the watch on his wrist?(Very easy to run away!!!)

3.Should I take large amount cash or go to bank and transfer?(Afraid black or fake cash)

In my local here, I heard that in XBOX face to face trade,"buyer" robbed the XBOX and ran away. So I am afraid same thing happen to me. A watch is much easier to rake than a XBOX.

Please help.

[tkerrmd]

meet at an AD, they can be involved in making sure the watch is authentic and help with the transaction for a small fee, plus they have armed guards

[sickened1]

Originally Posted by tkerrmd

meet at an AD, they can be involved in making sure the watch is authentic and help with the transaction for a small fee, plus they have armed guards

This. If you don't have one nearby then at least a public place (I always use Starbucks here since it's always crowded) and never bring a large sum of money. I'd rather transfer or go to the bank.

[Micha]

I meet at my bank ...lots of cameras ... deposit the cash right there and then release the watch...

[ocwatching]

Originally Posted by Micha

I meet at my bank ...lots of cameras ... deposit the cash right there and then release the watch...

unless you need to verify the watch..

I have done my deals inside my bank..money get deposited (verified non-forged bills) immediately then give the watch...

I have a good relationship with my bank and do it in their private banking area...

[overthehill]

Originally Posted by ocwatching

unless you need to verify the watch..

I have done my deals inside my bank..money get deposited (verified non-forged bills) immediately then give the watch...

I have a good relationship with my bank and do it in their private banking area...

+1

[brandrea]

Originally Posted by Micha

I meet at my bank ...lots of cameras ... deposit the cash right there and then release the watch...

This is exactly what I did a few months ago.

[rr-nyc]

Originally Posted by Micha

I meet at my bank ...lots of cameras ... deposit the cash right there and then release the watch...

^^^ this ^^^

OP- Of course you let the buyer try it on,... which is exactly what you would expect if you were the buyer. If I met a seller and the person wouldn't let me touch the watch or try it one, they would be reimbursing me for the waste of time.


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[Speed]

Originally Posted by tkerrmd

meet at an AD, they can be involved in making sure the watch is authentic and help with the transaction for a small fee, plus they have armed guards

Really? Never heard of an AD wanting to take this on / encouraging (external) sales transactions on their floor.

Nice service if provided.

[Tom-P]

Originally Posted by Speed

Really? Never heard of an AD wanting to take this on / encouraging (external) sales transactions on their floor.

+1, I was surprised at that thought.

[tkerrmd]

Originally Posted by Speed

Really? Never heard of an AD wanting to take this on / encouraging (external) sales transactions on their floor.

Nice service if provided.

mine does it YMMV

[MonBK]

Meet at a police station.

[kbutler1]

I sold mine in person. Met at a very public place. He actually brought all cash. Kind of funny trying to discreetly count stacks of $100's.
My advice, do whatever you feel comfortable with.

[henryouyang]

OK,now I am sure I have to meet at band. Should I let him to inspect the watch on his hand or let him try it on his wrist? If he wants to try on,he should go to the AD.How about I let him to inspect while I an holding the watch?

[ocwatching]

Originally Posted by henryouyang

OK,now I am sure I have to meet at band. Should I let him to inspect the watch on his hand or let him try it on his wrist? If he wants to try on,he should go to the AD.How about I let him to inspect while I an holding the watch?

honestly...you don't sound like you are comfortable with the person you are dealing with or gotten any references...

first rule of private party deals..don't do it if you even feel just a little fishy or funny about the deal...

if the guy is willing to meet you at a bank with cash in hand...I think that says a lot about his character...

If he is not sure about the watch and needs verification..you two are not comfortable with each other...

[henryouyang]

Originally Posted by ocwatching

honestly...you don't sound like you are comfortable with the person you are dealing with or gotten any references...

first rule of private party deals..don't do it if you even feel just a little fishy or funny about the deal...

if the guy is willing to meet you at a bank with cash in hand...I think that says a lot about his character...

If he is not sure about the watch and needs verification..you two are not comfortable with each other...

Well, I don't know who the guy is. I just post it on KIJIJI(local 2nd hand market). He offered the highest price. But we didn't talk about where to meet yet.

[johneh]

It doesn't sounds like you really want to do this. You're worried about fake cash and the guy robbing you. Stay home, or meet at a bank or AD.

[Mfrankel2]

Originally Posted by ocwatching

honestly...you don't sound like you are comfortable with the person you are dealing with or gotten any references...

first rule of private party deals..don't do it if you even feel just a little fishy or funny about the deal...

if the guy is willing to meet you at a bank with cash in hand...I think that says a lot about his character...

If he is not sure about the watch and needs verification..you two are not comfortable with each other...

This sums it up

[watchwatcher]

All good suggestions...you should be OK if you proceed with caution. Good luck,

[Viffer]

I bought my Submariner (via Ebay) met the owner outside his AD, verified the watch inside, strolled down the street to his bank, handed the cash over, he paid it in to his account, he gave me the full kit, shook hands and we went our separate ways

[mjclark32]

I met a forum member at a train station, brought cash, he brought a pen to verify bills. Looking back on it, we could have been much smarter, but it worked out. Thanks for not robbing me opaline460

[sunnyd]

Any public place with a lot of people should suffice.

[Chewbacca]

the problem isn't security of doing the f2f deal, you have many suggestions from seasoned members but imho, the bank is best for safety and currency verification.

the police will tell you to get lost and do your deals elsewhere. the AD (unless they really know you), may do the same.

good luck.

[henryouyang]

Should I hand the watch over to inspect and try on?

This question is never solved.

[MonBK]

Originally Posted by henryouyang

Should I hand the watch over to inspect and try on?

This question is never solved.

Would you buy a watch where a paranoid owner holds on to it and won't let you touch it.

[Chewbacca]

Originally Posted by henryouyang

Should I hand the watch over to inspect and try on?

This question is never solved.

the question was solved in the Cretaceous period when Hrgh traded a whacking club for a throwing rock with Grughr. Hrgh let Grughr touch and feel the club and that was the start of trade as we know it.

so yes, the buyer typically wants to touch and feel during a f2f deal just like you want to see the money and/or draft.

go get em champ!

[Rootbeer]

Originally Posted by henryouyang

Should I hand the watch over to inspect and try on?

This question is never solved.

You should grasp one of his legs firmly with your free hand before handing over the watch. Or, and this is my preferred method, have him lie down flat on the floor before handing over the watch for him to inspect. Best to do this in a public place. No-one will think it is weird.

[Chadridv]

All the above suggestions are great, but bottom line is use common sense and follow your instincts! If something feels off, whether it be the meeting location, weird change of plans, weird excuses for weirder issues, etc, just bail!

Somewhere inside you will know if something is off. Don't get distracted, keep on point and concentrate on what's happening. Being present minded is key!

[azguy]

You guys crack me up... Did you all grow up in safe suburbs where nobody locked their door and the milk man knew everyone's name

Why would Banks, AD's and police stations want to get involved in your watch, car or other pricey transaction sales in their lobby no less. Highly unlikely IMHO.

IMHO, if you are not prepared to let someone try on the watch you are not prepared and/or capable of making a deal like this. Go to a store front, make the deal and take the beating...

I've meet countless people at Starbucks for countless transactions. I make sure we communicate via text and/or phone calls so I have a good contact number and after that "it is what it is".....

[rr-nyc]

Originally Posted by azguy

You guys crack me up... Did you all grow up in safe suburbs where nobody locked their door and the milk man knew everyone's name



Why would Banks, AD's and police stations want to get involved in your watch, car or other pricey transaction sales in their lobby no less. Highly unlikely IMHO.



IMHO, if you are not prepared to let someone try on the watch you are not prepared and/or capable of making a deal like this. Go to a store front, make the deal and take the beating...



I've meet countless people at Starbucks for countless transactions. I make sure we communicate via text and/or phone calls so I have a good contact number and after that "it is what it is".....

Using your logic, why bother with Starbucks and not an abandoned building or alley?

The fact is that if I am doing a face-to-face deal at a bank or police station, they are natural deterrents for a thief because of armed guards and video. If the thief still goes through with it, I m not hoping someone jumps in to help, even though the odds are very high that they would, rather that the crime is caught on video.




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