Obsessive polisher Any advise?

[chaz13]

I have recently had my 116234 whith white gold fluted bezel serviced at Rolex London refurbed after 3 years. In a mad moment of extravagance I asked them to replace the bezel at big £££££. After spending this money I have become over sensitive about the condition of the bezel and am constantly looking at it only to discover more and more marks. I purchased a horosafe nano fibre piled watch cloth to insure that The metal is not worn away when polishing. Even using this type of cloth remarked to be the safest in the world The definition of the fluting is bieng rubbed. Is the white gold really that soft or should I just leave it alone. Alternatively does anyone know how best to revive this part of the watch without wearing the definition?