Tell the Boss

[theibis]

Does anyone here not tell their boss that they wear a Rolex? I didn't and he doesn't know what it is. I think I know his thought process, and it could work against me come bonus time.

[HL65]

No--I tell nobody and interestingly enough nobody ever comments--and I like it that way!!

[AWS]

I would never tell someone that I am wearing a Rolex. If they never notice, all the better to me.

[globalmedia33]

I didn't and I'm glad that my boss does not know what it is.

[padi56]

Originally Posted by theibis

Does anyone here not tell their boss that they wear a Rolex? I didn't and he doesn't know what it is. I think I know his thought process, and it could work against me come bonus time.

Cannot see what difference in wearing any watch has to do with any working relationship.Its a watch and most people would not even notice what brand of watch you was wearing only perhaps a WIS.And if you think it would work against you, and cannot see any reason why, just because you wear a Rolex watch.Much like the millions of other workers worldwide simple answer wear a different watch.I would hope my boss would appreciate me for my work and not for any watch I was or not wearing.

[ingoodtime]

Originally Posted by padi56

Cannot see what difference in wearing any watch has to do with any working relationship.Its a watch and most people would not even notice what brand of watch you was wearing only perhaps a WIS.And if you think it would work against you, and cannot see any reason why, just because you wear a Rolex watch.Much like the millions of other workers worldwide simple answer wear a different watch.I would hope my boss would appreciate me for my work and not for any watch I was or not wearing.

Some bosses don't look at how much money your efforts contribute to earn them or the company but only at what you COST them. So, if they see you wearing an very expensive watch, you may find yourself on the short end of the stick come raise time. I understand the fear. That said, I would wear my Rolex anyway. I have friends and coworkers that go on very expensive vacations. No one questions that..you worked hard now go have some fun. I'd prefer to sacrifice some of the fancy vacations and have something to enjoy for a lifetime.

[CashGap]

Originally Posted by ingoodtime

I'd prefer to sacrifice some of the fancy vacations and have something to enjoy for a lifetime.

I feel the same way. Part of it has to do with my outlook on life. I think that just about all of it is FANTASTIC, and I feel as if I am on vacation almost every day.

But then again... I have the easiest job in the company. I often joke that my two responsibilities are making decisions and criticizing the work of others. The second comes naturally to me and decisions are easy unless you are trying to justify the wrong decision.

My Rolex arrives this week, and I'm going to attempt to "come out" gradually. It's a sales organization, so EVERYTHING is noticed.

[OLJR]

If the boss does notice and is surprised that you have made such a big purchase then it might be a good thing.

Perhaps your purchase could signal confidence in your abilities and even enhance your prospects for promotion and a pay rise if somehow the image you project moves further towards a perception of competence and ability among those with influence than it did before you bought the piece.

[JJL]

I don't really want to get into it, but from my experience it is not going to help you (at all) if your boss knows you have a Rolex(s) and drive a sick luxury car. It could create jealousy. I just don't think anything positive comes out of it unless you're good friends with your boss, and he is a WIS, and you're already extremely happy with your compensation.

[Jocke]

Originally Posted by theibis

Does anyone here not tell their boss that they wear a Rolex? I didn't and he doesn't know what it is. I think I know his thought process, and it could work against me come bonus time.

Nope, I never speak to myself.

[brownbear]

Originally Posted by Jocke

Nope, I never speak to myself.

Same situation here but I do sometimes speak to myself..

my clients/customers usually do not notice..

[theibis]

Connor, well said. I share your point of view.

[Deldog]

I agree with the OP. In fact, the perception others will have is the one thing that gives me pause about going for my first Rolex.

I know others here will say, "Wear it with pride!" And, of course, I will. But there are plenty of people in the world who feel sorry for themselves and don't take the reins of their own lives, and they're just sitting there waiting to jump all over anyone who has. A Rolex is the perfect bait for them, nevermind if they've spent just as much or more on a motorcycle or entertainment system or cameras or whatever.

I don't give them much time or credence, but they are out there and they are annoying.

Anyway, Jocke has the right idea here. Work for yourself, then your boss will always know you need more money for more watches, right? ... Deldog

[ingoodtime]

Originally Posted by Deldog

I agree with the OP. In fact, the perception others will have is the one thing that gives me pause about going for my first Rolex.

I know others here will say, "Wear it with pride!" And, of course, I will. But there are plenty of people in the world who feel sorry for themselves and don't take the reins of their own lives, and they're just sitting there waiting to jump all over anyone who has. A Rolex is the perfect bait for them, nevermind if they've spent just as much or more on a motorcycle or entertainment system or cameras or whatever.

I don't give them much time or credence, but they are out there and they are annoying.

Anyway, Jocke has the right idea here. Work for yourself, then your boss will always know you need more money for more watches, right? ... Deldog

Believe it or not, but very few people recognize that I am wearing a Rolex. Sometimes I catch people sneaking sideways glances. Truth be told, there are lookalikes out there by companies like invicta. Unless people can really get a god look, they will never know.

I was working at another one of our offices Nd met a peer. He was wearing what at first glance looked like a gold Rolex with jubilee bracelet. I almost said nice Rolex. But, a second glance made me realize that it might have been a Seiko? I just kept my mouth shut. Don't worry about what others think. Do what makes you happy.

[Timepeice]

In my previous position, I supported the manufacturing line so I was always on the shop floor with the hourly folk. I never wore the Rolex to work because I didn't want to seem pretentious. G-Shock all last year.

[SoCal C4S]

I wear my watches for me. If my boss asked, it wouldn't matter because we don't get yearly bonuses...

[dsio]

No need to tell anyone, there are websites for mutual back patting and watch compliments, much like this one :)

Any time someone pulls out anything gold or rare it gets more compliments here than Natalie Portman at a star wars convention, and with no negative judgmental comments!

[Cru Jones]

I'm not quite sure how you spend your money would influence the boss. In the end, it's your money, and he knows how much you earn. It's not like he's going to all of a sudden realize he's paying you too much.....

And it could just as easily work in your favor.....The boss could view your classy big-ticket item as a sign that you have ambition and want to work hard to earn your fair share to buy what you like.

If your boss is petty about you owning a Rolex, I'd say he's probably not a good person to work for in another ways, too.

[MonBK]

What's a boss?

[Jocke]

Originally Posted by MonBK

What's a boss?

I believe they use the word wife in Delray.

[MonBK]

Originally Posted by Jocke

I believe they use the word wife in Delray.

Always have.

[Kanger]

Originally Posted by Jocke

I believe they use the word wife in Delray.

Jocke needs to do standup! Who agrees

[esm]

Yes I do. My wife's knows all the watches I have in the watch box.

[Minutehand]

Folks in the office know what my hobby is. Even so, they do not know, or care, what I wear.

I came late for a meeting once. MY boss's comment was: So many watches and you still manage to be late for the meeting?

[mtrunner]

I would never bring it up and no one in my office even notices my watches. I am not sure why or how I would even tell my boss I am wearing a Rolex. Even commenting to someone "Hey I am wearing a Rolex" seems a bit odd to me.

[Dr. Robert]

Don't ask, don't tell.

[kilyung]

My boss wears a beat up 16613 but we don't talk watches.

[1HotBoss70]

My Boss is an @sshole...he has no class and wouldn't know a Rolex from a Timex...and he would definitely hold it against me...because that is just the type of person he is...when a purchased my BMW he commented on how I was not buying from the BIG 3 supporting our local economy...even though I have 4 classic Fords at home...he only cares about his inner circle and those close to him, and he wouldn't think twice in stabbing me in the back...

[sea-dweller]

I just wear mine, if they notice it, fine; if they don't, that is OK also.

[spuds]

The OP (and others) are right.

I had my own firm for 10-15? years & it I can honestly say it never bothered me how my employees spent their wages: but since the recession kicked in I now work for a larger firm where my boss(es) look at it that whatever I buy, ultimately they paid for it.


W*nkers.