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SirGrotius · 7 September 2013, 10:50 PM

My loving wife bought me a Rolex for my birthday. She knew I was eyeing the bluesy, and had an eye out for a black-face watch to compliment my Polar Exp II.

Problem is our AD did not have the bluesy, so she ended up getting the GMT-II black with green lettering. I like it but can't say I love it. She saw it on my face when I unwrapped it. I feel it is somewhat impractical to keep the watch if it's not the 'one.' Any recs on how to navigate. ;)

Rolexitis · 7 September 2013, 11:05 PM

Nobody here knows your wife like you do and can't say with confidence how to navigate. I personally say keep it. It was a gift and a GREAT piece. Get the bluesy next.

Happy birthday

BMcGee · 7 September 2013, 11:07 PM

I would return it.

She already knew you wanted the blue one but decided to get you a different one because the AD didn't have it. It's kind of an insult.

Get what you really want. You said your facial expression already gave it away that you were not happy and probably really mad inside. Return it and make it up to her.

Touring · 7 September 2013, 11:17 PM

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Originally Posted by BMcGee

She already knew you wanted the blue one but decided to get you a different one because the AD didn't have it. It's kind of an insult.

How is it insulting exactly? The AD didn't have one in stock and his birthday was coming up so she bought a dark dial to compliment his polar Exp II.

If you think she saw that you were disappointed or you know you won't wear it, return it for credit and order the bluesy. I'm sure she'll be happier to see you actually enjoying the bluesy than neglecting the GMT II.

BMcGee · 7 September 2013, 11:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Touring

How is it insulting exactly? The AD didn't have one in stock and his birthday was coming up so she bought a dark dial to compliment his polar Exp II.

I'm just thinking if I bought my significant other something other than what she wanted, let's say I buy a different LV bag than what she wanted and knowing she wanted another particular bag, I would be insulting her. It's like saying, "Honey...they didn't have the one you want, this is the sort-of the same and so live with it."

These watches aren't cheap just to live with it.

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If you think she saw that you were disappointed or you know you won't wear it, return it for credit and order the bluesy. I'm sure she'll be happier to see you actually enjoying the bluesy than neglecting the GMT II.

She had good intentions but I think the OP should get what he wants.

Lucky777 · 7 September 2013, 11:51 PM

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Originally Posted by BMcGee

I'm just thinking if I bought my significant other something other than what she wanted, let's say I buy a different LV bag than what she wanted and knowing she wanted another particular bag, I would be insulting her. It's like saying, "Honey...they didn't have the one you want, this is the sort-of the same and so live with it."

These watches aren't cheap just to live with it.

She had good intentions but I think the OP should get what he wants.

I don't think insult is really the word you are looking for. If insulting me is buying me a Rolex watch other than the one I really want ...I will start begging for insults. If I was in the OP's shoes I would just tell the Mrs that I love the piece, but let's try as find a blue sub. It isn't the end of the world. Certainly a first world problem to have ;)

Audemars Piguet · 7 September 2013, 11:22 PM

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Originally Posted by BMcGee

I would return it.

She already knew you wanted the blue one but decided to get you a different one because the AD didn't have it. It's kind of an insult.

Get what you really want. You said your facial expression already gave it away that you were not happy and probably really mad inside. Return it and make it up to her.

x2

SixPak · 8 September 2013, 12:09 AM

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Originally Posted by BMcGee

I would return it.

She already knew you wanted the blue one but decided to get you a different one because the AD didn't have it. It's kind of an insult.

Get what you really want. You said your facial expression already gave it away that you were not happy and probably really mad inside. Return it and make it up to her.

Mad and insulted??

Gotta disagree.

To the OP, I would keep it because that was a great gesture from your wife even if it's not the watch you want. The GMTIIc is a great watch. Save up and find a way to get the bluesy in the future.

Gary Busey · 8 September 2013, 02:11 AM

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Originally Posted by BMcGee

I would return it.

She already knew you wanted the blue one but decided to get you a different one because the AD didn't have it. It's kind of an insult.

Get what you really want. You said your facial expression already gave it away that you were not happy and probably really mad inside. Return it and make it up to her.

Hes right, shes a horrible wife, return her.

kxux · 8 September 2013, 03:17 AM

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Originally Posted by BMcGee

She already knew you wanted the blue one but decided to get you a different one because the AD didn't have it. It's kind of an insult.

I wouldn't say getting 8k watch as a present is insulting. Well at least not in my family. Even if I got something else than what I wanted I would be grateful.

As to what to do next - best will be to talk it over with her. In your shoes I would acknowledge how grateful I am for getting such a great present and ask her how she would feel about me exchanging the watch for another model that I prefer more. And see where that conversation takes you.

If you go and trade it without having the conversation I think your wife may be the one that will be offended. And rightfully so.

In any case good luck and post the pictures of the piece that you will keep.

Mystro · 8 September 2013, 01:21 PM

Your not married are you?

To the OP: Glad you worked it out. Lets see what kind of gift you get next year.....I am betting socks and underwear. Women never forget this kind of stuff.....

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Originally Posted by BMcGee

I would return it.

She already knew you wanted the blue one but decided to get you a different one because the AD didn't have it. It's kind of an insult.

Get what you really want. You said your facial expression already gave it away that you were not happy and probably really mad inside. Return it and make it up to her.

Macnavara · 9 September 2013, 07:29 PM

[QUOTE=BMcGee;4396386]I would return it.

She already knew you wanted the blue one but decided to get you a different one because the AD didn't have it. It's kind of an insult.

Wish my wife would insult me like this

mjclark32 · 7 September 2013, 11:22 PM

I think if you're open and honest with her about it she'll completely understand and want you to be happy.

KBM · 8 September 2013, 05:08 AM

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Originally Posted by mjclark32

I think if you're open and honest with her about it she'll completely understand and want you to be happy.

This. Do not settle, you will regret it. This is primarily an emotional hobby, you HAVE to love these watches, otherwise what is the point of spending thousands upon thousands of dollars on them?

kcmo · 8 September 2013, 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by mjclark32

i think if you're open and honest with her about it she'll completely understand and want you to be happy.

x2

brettpaul · 11 September 2013, 12:26 AM

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Originally Posted by mjclark32

I think if you're open and honest with her about it she'll completely understand and want you to be happy.

x2 here. A watch is a very personal item and its really the thought that counts!

This is coming from a husband who has returned/exchanged many gifts for his wife.....people just like what they like and I'm no longer bothered by it!

jshepard · 7 September 2013, 11:50 PM

Talk to her about it and offer to go together to the AD and exchange it (order if you must). The new watch will still come from her so I don't see why she'll be upset. If you do that and she does get upset... My bad... Good luck!

Annan · 7 September 2013, 11:54 PM

You say you were eyeing the Bluesy and also had an eye out for a black-face watch. Sounds to me that you got one of your two choices but obviously not THE one you wanted. If your disappointment was obvious to your wife you need to discuss matters with her and hopefully do a return with her blessing. If I was in her situation I'd feel better knowing you got what you really wanted. Have to say I envy you guys with spouses who buy you Rolexes. I'm doing good to have my wife even agree to let me buy one at all! And this despite the fact I gave her one as a gift!!

Touring · 8 September 2013, 12:04 AM

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Originally Posted by BMcGee

I'm just thinking if I bought my significant other something other than what she wanted, let's say I buy a different LV bag than what she wanted and knowing she wanted another particular bag, I would be insulting her. It's like saying, "Honey...they didn't have the one you want, this is the sort-of the same and so live with it."

These watches aren't cheap just to live with it.

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Originally Posted by Annan

You say you were eyeing the Bluesy and also had an eye out for a black-face watch. Sounds to me that you got one of your two choices but obviously not THE one you wanted.

What he said.

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Originally Posted by Lucky777

If insulting me is buying me a Rolex watch other than the one I really want ...I will start begging for insults.

+1

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Originally Posted by BMcGee

She had good intentions but I think the OP should get what he wants.

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Originally Posted by Touring

If you think she saw that you were disappointed or you know you won't wear it, return it for credit and order the bluesy. I'm sure she'll be happier to see you actually enjoying the bluesy than neglecting the GMT II.

I think that's what I said.

civic4982 · 7 September 2013, 11:58 PM

Sounds reasonable.just talk to her about it. I'm sure shell be happierif you get what fits your desires best

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kilyung · 8 September 2013, 12:04 AM

Just trade it for what you want. She'll understand. If you bought her the wrong purse, she'd have no qualms about exchanging it.

Wllnv19 · 8 September 2013, 12:38 AM

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Originally Posted by kilyung

Just trade it for what you want. She'll understand. If you bought her the wrong purse, she'd have no qualms about exchanging it.

Chainring · 8 September 2013, 03:11 AM

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Originally Posted by kilyung

Just trade it for what you want. She'll understand. If you bought her the wrong purse, she'd have no qualms about exchanging it.

Bingo!

eeh100773 · 8 September 2013, 11:59 PM

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Originally Posted by kilyung

Just trade it for what you want. She'll understand. If you bought her the wrong purse, she'd have no qualms about exchanging it.

Amen!

Touring · 9 September 2013, 05:38 AM

Nice!

Hairdude1 · 9 September 2013, 12:33 AM

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Originally Posted by kilyung

Just trade it for what you want. She'll understand. If you bought her the wrong purse, she'd have no qualms about exchanging it.

This

boogiebot · 10 September 2013, 05:40 AM

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Originally Posted by kilyung

Just trade it for what you want. She'll understand. If you bought her the wrong purse, she'd have no qualms about exchanging it.

this is true. its happened to me on a couple of occasions lol.

WatchFeen · 10 September 2013, 05:44 AM

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Originally Posted by kilyung

Just trade it for what you want. She'll understand. If you bought her the wrong purse, she'd have no qualms about exchanging it.

x2.

Sous · 8 September 2013, 12:12 AM

I must say this is an absurd post. Rolex is going to make thousands of the Bluesy's over the next 20 years. I'm sure you'll be able to pick one up for 60% of retail in about a year from now.

Keep the watch your wife bought for you; out of love and desire to buy her spouse something special for his special day. Wasn't what you wanted? It's a multi-thousand dollar Rolex--the only diff between this and the other is the perceived specialness of the dial/hand/bezel combos. Otherwise it's the same damn watch.

(DMB) · 8 September 2013, 12:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Sous

I must say this is an absurd post.

7 September 2013, 10:50 PM	#1
SirGrotius Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Philadelphia Posts: 147	Good but awkward problem My loving wife bought me a Rolex for my birthday. She knew I was eyeing the bluesy, and had an eye out for a black-face watch to compliment my Polar Exp II. Problem is our AD did not have the bluesy, so she ended up getting the GMT-II black with green lettering. I like it but can't say I love it. She saw it on my face when I unwrapped it. I feel it is somewhat impractical to keep the watch if it's not the 'one.' Any recs on how to navigate. ;)

7 September 2013, 11:05 PM	#2
Rolexitis "TRF" Member Join Date: May 2008 Real Name: Matt Location: Earth Watch: 114060 Posts: 3,203	Nobody here knows your wife like you do and can't say with confidence how to navigate. I personally say keep it. It was a gift and a GREAT piece. Get the bluesy next. Happy birthday __________________ Card Carrying Member of the Global Association of Retro-Grouch-Curmudgeons

7 September 2013, 11:22 PM	#13
mjclark32 "TRF" Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Real Name: MJC Location: PHL USA Watch: IWC, Rolex, AP Posts: 29,232	I think if you're open and honest with her about it she'll completely understand and want you to be happy. __________________

7 September 2013, 11:54 PM	#18
Annan "TRF" Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Real Name: Ron Location: Arizona, USA Watch: 116233 Posts: 3,180	You say you were eyeing the Bluesy and also had an eye out for a black-face watch. Sounds to me that you got one of your two choices but obviously not THE one you wanted. If your disappointment was obvious to your wife you need to discuss matters with her and hopefully do a return with her blessing. If I was in her situation I'd feel better knowing you got what you really wanted. Have to say I envy you guys with spouses who buy you Rolexes. I'm doing good to have my wife even agree to let me buy one at all! And this despite the fact I gave her one as a gift!! __________________ *so many Rolexes.....so little time*

7 September 2013, 11:07 PM	#3
BMcGee Banned Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: HB, CA Posts: 19	I would return it. She already knew you wanted the blue one but decided to get you a different one because the AD didn't have it. It's kind of an insult. Get what you really want. You said your facial expression already gave it away that you were not happy and probably really mad inside. Return it and make it up to her.

9 September 2013, 07:29 PM	#12
Macnavara "TRF" Member Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 2,355	[QUOTE=BMcGee;4396386]I would return it. She already knew you wanted the blue one but decided to get you a different one because the AD didn't have it. It's kind of an insult. Wish my wife would insult me like this

7 September 2013, 11:50 PM	#17
jshepard "TRF" Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: USA Watch: GMTII Posts: 1,180	Talk to her about it and offer to go together to the AD and exchange it (order if you must). The new watch will still come from her so I don't see why she'll be upset. If you do that and she does get upset... My bad... Good luck!

7 September 2013, 11:58 PM	#20
civic4982 "TRF" Member Join Date: Oct 2012 Real Name: Vinh Location: Texas Posts: 48	Sounds reasonable.just talk to her about it. I'm sure shell be happierif you get what fits your desires best Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk - now Free

8 September 2013, 12:04 AM	#21
kilyung 2024 SubLV41 Pledge Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Cave Watch: Sundial Posts: 33,940	Just trade it for what you want. She'll understand. If you bought her the wrong purse, she'd have no qualms about exchanging it.

9 September 2013, 05:38 AM	#25
Touring 2024 SubLV41 Pledge Member Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: Hoth Posts: 1,243	Nice!

8 September 2013, 12:12 AM	#29
Sous "TRF" Member Join Date: Oct 2012 Real Name: Paul Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 307	I must say this is an absurd post. Rolex is going to make thousands of the Bluesy's over the next 20 years. I'm sure you'll be able to pick one up for 60% of retail in about a year from now. Keep the watch your wife bought for you; out of love and desire to buy her spouse something special for his special day. Wasn't what you wanted? It's a multi-thousand dollar Rolex--the only diff between this and the other is the perceived specialness of the dial/hand/bezel combos. Otherwise it's the same damn watch.

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