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10 September 2011, 11:16 PM | #61 |
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"behind your back"? - Telling phraseology.
It would be wholly unwise for someone to impart 100% faith in a single fallible human being over something as precious as one's health. However, more than ten opinions and the whole thing gets too complicated.
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As a patient, if I had any anxiety about the treatment my physician suggested, I would seek another opinion. I would not tell my physician that I'm doing so, as I don't feel it concerns him. I always research the options and try to become as educated about them as possible. Getting the second opinion can be just about learning or easing my mind.
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Done and dusted. Thank you again to all practicing clinicians who provided input which aligned to the questions and thank you for making this world a better place to live in. |
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In fairness to the non physicians who posted, they gave you their valid opinions on the topic.
They agreed that 2nd opinions are important, especially when the stakes are high. They don't feel obligated to tell you that they are seeking other opinions. They're appropriately concerned about a physician who feels threatened by that. When I was at Stanford, there was a senior neurosurgeon there who would successfully do "hail mary" resections that others would not touch. I would often hear the stories of his patients being refused surgery elsewhere, sometimes multiple places, before getting a referral to this surgeon. My sister in law's rare cancer was misdiagnosed by an accomplished world expert at Johns Hopkins. People make mistakes, interpret things differently, and there is often more than one accepted treatment plan. Second opinions can be lifesaving, empowering, and should be encouraged.
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its very hrd to find good doctors out here so looking for one that can help and care at the same time is a challenge
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What I don't understand is why a doctor always gets paid, even for a treatment that was never succesful.
If I don't complete the work that is expected from me, I don't get paid for it...
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The question is troubling as a medical consumer.
As a "senior" practitioner you would ideally be comfortable with this and know how to handle it professionally, in the best interest of your patient. Context is important. Are we talking about athletes foot or Ebola? The more complex, or unusual, the more help is warranted. Your post seems to hint you are uncomfortable with this or perhaps threatened. You direct this question to practioners not patients, from whom you stand to learn as much. If true you are hurt or offended, in those emotions could be the source where grave mistakes are made. Perhaps the best way to handle is to have faith in your diagnoses, and hope for true competence in your colleague, who will hopefully concur. |
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If your patient has got a second opinion he or she will now realise that you are correct and the treatment you offer in the future will be correct. If they keep going back for another opinion on the ongoing treatment you offer then I would refer them to the second Doctor to continue there treatment
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The way to avoid having a patient "go behind your back" for a second opinion is to encourage him/her to seek a second opinion.
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Going for a second opinion is a good practice. I am sure patients will seek a second opinion form you too. Therefore, a sense of insecurity or a feeling of hut does not last long! Enjoy your practice!
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Actually, they don't always get paid.... I don't know the stats, but most practices have a fairly sizable chunk of non-paid accounts. And I think a patient can still due a doc for everything he's worth, even if they didn't pay him. A few tidbits: Even if a patient has insurance, sometimes it take up to three months for the claim to be processed. 26 percent of medicaid claims are rejected - so the doc doesn't get paid. And, if a practice hires collection agency, they can expect only to regain a portion of that debt, and they have to pay the agency. |
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If I wake your child up at the end of the procedure, I get paid. It doesn't matter if the treatment, surgery, study, etc was successful. And what is success?
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In my situation I have spent many thousands of dollars on doctors, and nothing has helped me to get rid of the pain. Chronic pain for 14 years 24/7 is a long time, and having doctors telling me after lots of treatment and hundreds of $ spent, that I just have to learn to live with it, is a slap in the face. If I hire a contractor to remodel my kitchen and in the end have no running water or electricity connected to my stove, I would be pissed, and if that contractor would tell me I would just have to live with it... He doesn't care, because I pre-paid him... right? Just like a doctor won't see me unless I pay my $50 co-pay up front. I've had many doctors mistreat me, and I feel cheated by the system, I'm sorry.
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I researched for months. I got second--and third--and forth opinions. I asked for recommendations and personal experiences. I was shopping for a watch.
If I needed more information about my HEALTH I'd get ten opinions if that's what took to be educated and engaged in my care. If my doctor kicked me to the curb for doing so, I'd call myself lucky. |
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