Goals revisited

[Ashley]

Alright guys, a while ago I made a thread about a list of goals that you may have. I thought that it was time to do a check in, and to see if you have any new goals to add to the list!
My goals are constantly evolving, so here are my goals now, and how I'm doing so far.


1) School - I've decided that I need to focus on my math rather than courses that I would find easier (and, unfortunately, more interesting ) and will revisit all of the psychology and social science courses next year instead. It's not exactly what I had planned, but flexibility is a must at this point in my life!
2) Body - I went to my weigh in yesterday and found that I am just under twelve pounds away from my ultimate weight goal. After I reach that magic number, my goal will change to maintaining that weight (or really damn close to it) for the next year. I also really want to tone more as well. Also, as a reward to myself (or a cruel punishment, depending on how it goes ) I plan on going to a modeling agency that I have heard very good things about, and who focus on a healthy body (or so they claim, we'll see!) I obviously don't think that anything could result from it, but since I was approached by a modeling scout on the bus last week, I figure I might as well give it a shot. Why not???

3) Mind - I am continuing to work on bringing up my self esteem and trying to work through issues that both have been brought up in this forum and others that haven't. I know that I will always have these issues with me, I just want to work on managing them and not let them have the massive effect that they are having on me. This will by far be the hardest of my goals, I hope that I can do it!

4) Family and Friends - I do not have the greatest relationship with my younger sister, so one of my goals is to develop a better one with her. Both being teenage girls, obviously we will clash at times, but I know that it's important to my mom that we become more like sisters with one another, so I will overlook any personal vendettas so that I can make my mom happy.
As for Aadil, my goal for this year with him will be to give him patience and understanding, because he will have a lot on his plate with being a team manager at a big company in the city, as well as attending school for his MBA. We won't be able to spend a lot of time with each other while we're in school, and although it will be hard, I know that we can get through it, and it will be worth it in the end! (It's been over three years of the same thing, so we're well trained in getting through tough school years! )
My goal for my friends is to spend more time with them, because with how busy everything is, my spare time is going to Aadil. When he's back in school though, I'll have more time to spend with them, so I have that to look forward to

That's all for now, so I would love to hear where you all are with your goals, and if you have any new ones, or any evolved ones from last time. Please share!!


Ashley