Please help me choose my second Rolex (BLNR vs 116713)

[hojuturtle]

Hello.
This is my first post and I need your opinion.
I usually never have problem choosing,
but this one I would like to hear more opinions.
I have already read most threads regarding both models.

I have 14060m and black bay burgundy, and would like to get either BLNR or 116713 tt.

I have tried both at local AD, and 116713 sings more to me.
But I'm worried that I wouldn't wear it as much due to the fact
that I wear casual 99% of the time, even at work.

BLNR was nice as expected, but nothing wow. I think it will
grow as I wear it? And I would be able to wear it whilst I work.
(Not too blingy)

I'm turning 35, and I wouldn't be able to flip easily where I live.
Thanks in advance.