Which one looks better...on me?

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This is my first post, and I typically don't post on forums. However, I have been torn and unable to decide between two really beautiful watches, so I was hoping y'all could help me. It is to be my 40th birthday gift and I want to make sure I make the right decision -- not just for now, but for 10-15 years from now, if that makes sense.

I am choosing between the midsize ladies DJ and the DD -- YG, mother of pearl diamond dial, and diamond bezel. Objectively looking at the two watches, hands down, I would choose the DD...no hesitation. Unfortunately, my wrist is only 5.5" and so that's the dilemma.

Here is a picture of the two watches on my wrist. I realize that with the bracelet hanging down, it's hard to tell what they would look like once properly sized, but that's the other thing -- does anyone know if I removed all 7 removable links on the DD, if it would fit a 5.5" wrist?

Thanks in advance for your help!