Dating Advice: How do you guys get over someone that was “special”

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First, since she was the one to cut it off, you need to block her off mentally and work on things that make you more interesting to the opposite sex. Presentation is a good thing, grooming, how you dress, make sure you exercise and eat clean. It sounds like you have been playing it correctly so far, and try not to give into impulse of reaching out to her. Only way to win this is to let it go and if she realizes she missed out, she will come back. If not, you have worked on a better you and have moved on. Tough spot, we've all been there. Good luck and make sure you occupy your time (gym, hobbies, friends). Take a step back and think about what makes you an interesting person (confidence, wit, etc.) and work on getting those attributes to display well. Keep up the dating...it willl help with your mindset and well, people often want what other people want...