Help me please

[superman555]

Hello,

I am from Pakistan. I am planning to buy a platinum rolex within a week and need your input.

I am into luxury watches and the day date model seems the most attractive to me.

First i settled for a model . Platinum with MOP Black . Diamonds dial and diamonds on the bezel outside. After looking at this model

http://www.rolex.com/en#/rolex-watch...m-m118206-0035

I felt that i love this dial more than the MOP with diamonds. If i use diamonds on the dial then i lose these Roman Numericals . Hence i am thinking about going for this model without MOP or diamonds inside.

Now my first question is that:

1. Where can i find a picture of this model with diamonds on bezel ?

Secondly i really love the ice blue dial . Is the shade the one which is on the link above on the official rolex site since it seems a bit darker on the link below:

http://www.santblanc.com/rolex-plati...nt-118206.html

so question 2 is

2. Is the Ice blue dial lighter or Darker ?

Lastly I cant decide whether i should go for a 36mm or a 41mm new day Date II

http://www.rolex.com/en#/rolex-watch...m-m218206-0043

Problem being that i dont know If a 41mm will suit me or not. there is no way i can try it out this model since its not here. THey just bring it here on Order.
I do have a 36mm Rolex 2 tone jubilee bracelet and that suits me well. I also do i have a 39mm Tag huer Twin Time and thats suits me as well but i am not sure about a 41mm and looking at the big dial i am not sure if its a dress watch or not ?

Hence question 3:

3. Will a 41mm suit me? is it a dress watch?
( i am 36 years old, my waist is 34 and my wrist circumference is 6.5. I do have slim wrist)

4. One more question came to my mind. Do diamonds look Cheap on watches ?