First (and probably only) Rolex

[elcabo]

Hello all,
I am a 21 year old law student considering both the 214270 Exp 1 and the 116200 white roman oyster bracelet datejust. This watch will be worn daily (suit on weekdays, swimwear and jeans on weekends), and I will not be purchasing another watch until my hair turns gray so I want to get this right. I have tried many models on and have narrowed it down to these two choices but am torn on which to go with. The Exp is sportier (black face, larger size, brushed links) but does not seem to have the charm and elegance of the DJ. I love the roman numerals on the DJ plus the clean white face. The PCLs seem fragile but I can always have them brushed if need be. Which do you all believe would be the more appropriate purchase? Any and all opinions or pictures would be greatly appreciated!