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Old 23 August 2024, 01:32 AM   #31
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Today I learned that a BLNR, Daytona, and Cermit are a "modest" collection

Just kidding, of course.

I don't feel guilty. I want to spend money on things that I like. Whether that is vehicles, foods, experiences, or watches. Watches are fun. And while I don't consider any watch an investment, it's also nice that value doesn't plummet immediately like a used vehicle, and they're not a one-and-done purchase like food or vacations.
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Old 23 August 2024, 01:33 AM   #32
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It is far from being the worst use of my money… so nope.

However i am aware that many will not understand the passion and the fact that it is not really throwing money out of the window…
I am not sure how to best handle that tbh…


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Old 23 August 2024, 01:34 AM   #33
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I feel more guilty at eating McDonald's then my watch purchases.
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Old 23 August 2024, 01:35 AM   #34
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I would say we should all forgo a watch purchase and donate that money to feed people....
What makes you think that some of us don't make such donations if we also buy watches?
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Old 23 August 2024, 01:36 AM   #35
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I would say we should all forgo a watch purchase and donate that money to feed people....but then I realized humans all suck and we should just take care of animals. So my recommendation is to feed/help animals and buy watches.
After having put up with more onery cows then I like to remember, I can assure you there are plenty of animals out there that suck lol

That said, no I don't feel guilty after buying the watch, the guilt comes in when decided on whether or not to spend the money on the watch vs invest it.....like this that just arrived from Aamir.
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Old 23 August 2024, 01:39 AM   #36
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Guilt is learned behavior that no one has until we are taught it, see it and choose to adopt it. It is probably easy to determine where your guilt comes from and just as easy to set it aside should you choose. I have no guilt for buying the watches I have. Why should I? I paid for each one, enjoy the wear and I am not hurting myself or others. Let it go, it is amazing once you do.
‘No’ would have been more convincing :)
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Old 23 August 2024, 01:48 AM   #37
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Today I learned that a BLNR, Daytona, and Cermit are a "modest" collection

Just kidding, of course...
That’s funny
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Old 23 August 2024, 01:51 AM   #38
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Old 23 August 2024, 02:03 AM   #39
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Every time now, but I have never missed the money once it is transferred and I don't have to think about it anymore. For some reason any large purchase does that to me now. I recently sold 2 watches and bought 1, had several thousand left over, and still felt guilty when I had to pay for it.
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Old 23 August 2024, 02:06 AM   #40
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Yes. There are only 2 things you can do.

1. Make more irresponsible friends.

2. Make more money so the amount you’re spending is just a minute percentage of your income. Like the Ambanis. Every single Richard Mille is cheaper to him than a g shock to me.

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Does anyone else ever feel guilty about how much they spend on wristwatches? I have a modest collection (BLNR, Daytona and Cermit) that I can comfortably afford, but sometimes I find myself feeling guilty for spending so much on them.

Is this just me, or does anyone else experience this catholic guilt?


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Old 23 August 2024, 03:02 AM   #41
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My recommendation is to walk into a Richard Mille boutique. You’ll feel less guilty.

That said. Having passing thoughts of your situation compared to most in the world is good. So many stars need be aligned for most of us to enjoy the luxury of premium watches and recognizing that is healthy.

If your watch purchase ever takes you away from promoting causes greater than self, then check yourself. If not, enjoy and recognize your accomplishments.
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Old 23 August 2024, 03:03 AM   #42
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My recommendation is to walk into a Richard Mille boutique. You’ll feel less guilty.
Yeah, but I couldn't handle the migraine attack.
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Old 23 August 2024, 03:18 AM   #43
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Today I learned that a BLNR, Daytona, and Cermit are a "modest" collection
Scrolling through TRF all day can distort the definition of "modest".
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Old 23 August 2024, 03:25 AM   #44
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Actually, sometimes I do have a wave of guilt come over me, but once I put that newly purchased watch back on my wrist, it quickly vanishes!
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Old 23 August 2024, 03:42 AM   #45
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If you can acquire them comfortably without putting a burden on your finances or responsibilities, then it's all good.
We all have hobbies. Some more expensive than others.

Exactly this!

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Old 23 August 2024, 03:47 AM   #46
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not really-as long as i can purchase them comfortably and still fulfill my other financial obligations and provide for my family it's been a good hobby. are they a necessity? no.
if for some reason we came upon hard financial times i would part with as many as i need to keep things afloat.
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Old 23 August 2024, 04:01 AM   #47
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It actually just struck me the other day that I am spending 5 figures on a watch and there are millions of people going hungry in the world. Discomforting.
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Old 23 August 2024, 04:22 AM   #48
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I would but............
My wife would have just spent the money, and I would never be able to figure out what on.
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Old 23 August 2024, 04:24 AM   #49
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No, it is my only real cash outflow. I am not much into traveling which can be a lot of money these days.
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Old 23 August 2024, 04:39 AM   #50
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I routinely flagellate myself in order to assuage my guilt. Other than that, it's not really worse than having money in the bank.
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Old 23 August 2024, 05:11 AM   #51
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Definitely. I always feel guilty when I spend money on something that is not a necessity (food, clothing, shelter) and that benefits only me. For example, I spend about $25,000 per year on fine wine; I don't feel guilty about that, because I share the wine with family and friends. Meanwhile, my most expensive watch cost $900, I felt guilty buying it, and I have refrained from buying other watches because they are not necessities and they would benefit only me. Plus, I really like my watch.
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Old 23 August 2024, 05:13 AM   #52
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I really don’t guilty though, as long as I’m not just flushing my hard earned money down the drain..
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Old 23 August 2024, 05:14 AM   #53
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What makes you think that some of us don't make such donations if we also buy watches?
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Old 23 August 2024, 06:03 AM   #54
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Perhaps it’s because of my age, 65, having recently lost a kidney and facing a borderline functioning remaining but I am not regretting a single dime I spend if it brings me joy. My goal is to die broke, just not live poor.
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Old 23 August 2024, 07:58 AM   #55
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Zero guilt. It’s something I buy to feel good, and reward myself.
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Old 23 August 2024, 07:59 AM   #56
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The only time I felt guilty was when I was behind a father and his two children in a store and the daughter asked for some item (like $10 or less). The father said no because if they bought that they wouldn’t be able to afford the food for dinner.

I felt about 2’ tall and contemplated if buying an expensive watch was the best use of my money.


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Old 23 August 2024, 10:29 AM   #57
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If you can afford it, go for it.

The guilt will wear off... trust me.
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Old 23 August 2024, 11:10 AM   #58
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Hello everyone,

Does anyone else ever feel guilty about how much they spend on wristwatches? I have a modest collection (BLNR, Daytona and Cermit) that I can comfortably afford, but sometimes I find myself feeling guilty for spending so much on them.

Is this just me, or does anyone else experience this catholic guilt?


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I definitely suffer from this!! Probably those 13 years in Catholic school! But I eventually get over it.


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Old 23 August 2024, 11:19 AM   #59
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It all depends on individual, It's a hobby you choose, If you can acquire them without exacting much burden in your finances, then it's a good one.
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Old 23 August 2024, 11:21 AM   #60
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It actually just struck me the other day that I am spending 5 figures on a watch and there are millions of people going hungry in the world. Discomforting.

I think this is appropriate.

I wouldn’t say I feel guilty but I try hard to be grateful for what I have.


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