Negative comments about your watch?

[nowzen]

I see you are from UK - as far as I know in the UK this is an accepted comment.
Your watch is not 'my cup of tea' either. but all that means in UK and Canada is:
Good for you, but not to my taste".

If we all had the same taste, i'd be a boring planet.
Sounds like an honest, up front bloke.
Move on.

[kymwatchlog]

he can't afford Your cuppa.

[Eeyore]

I note that this was said during a discussion about watches. Presumably the point of such a conversation is to express one's opinion. If I was specifically discussing watches with someone I might very well comment that a particular watch was not my cup of tea. I see no point in a conversation consisting of insincere expressions of mutual admiration.

[padi56]

Originally Posted by wolfwinter

Just brush it off and let him drive off in his KIA... LOL

And what's wrong with driving a Kia, today many just think of a Brand, and if that brand is not so expensive as X or Y brand it must be better. But thats not always the case,like today many don't wear watches they just wear the brand.There are several Rolex watches, plus quite a few other brands including many Patek they are not my cup of tea either.

[Eeyore]

I agree absolutely. I drive a small Japanese car and would have no problem with driving a Kia - it strikes me as a very good economic proposition.

[nowzen]

Originally Posted by padi56

and what's wrong with driving a kia, today many just think of a brand, and if that brand is not so expensive as x or y brand it must be better. But thats not always the case,like today many don't wear watches they just wear the brand.there are several rolex watches, plus quite a few other brands including many patek they are not my cup of tea either.

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[jackwebb]

Originally Posted by wolfwinter

Just brush it off and let him drive off in his KIA... LOL

My wife has a Kia and it was 40k that’s not a cheap car in my book, and it gets worse gas mileage than my Corvette.

[Bangel]

Originally Posted by padi56

And what's wrong with driving a Kia, today many just think of a Brand, and if that brand is not so expensive as X or Y brand it must be better. But thats not always the case,like today many don't wear watches they just wear the brand.There are several Rolex watches, plus quite a few other brands including many Patek they are not my cup of tea either.

Very astute call Padi.

[Bangel]

Having read through this thread again, it is clear that "not my cup of tea" can be interpreted differently by different people.

I contend that it can be interpreted differently by the same person depending on how it was said. This is what I was trying to suggest in my earlier post. It can be said with rapport and respect, or it can be said with disdain and a roll of the eyes and a shake of the head. To me, that conveys completely different attitudes by the person who said it.

Truth be told, I actually use the phrase quite a lot myself!

Sorry if I'm ranting. If anything, I've enjoyed reading everyone's comments.

[MrLee]

Another omega hater of Rolex, what a surprise! Never the other way round btw. These omega owners are just plain envious IMHO. Personally I love both brands, currently really looking at getting a seamaster Montreal 1976 to go with the sub c

[Megalobyte]

Again, it depends on the nature of the relationship.

If you know someone for a bit, politely expressing an opinion might be fine.

But picture this:

I meet a guy for the first time. He pulls up in an Aston Martin. Im a car enthusiast too, I pull up in my Porsche. He compliments me on my Porsche. Then, obviously excited to show me his Aston Martin, I say, well, I'm not really a fan of Aston Martin. I think id be something of an ass for saying that to a guy who's obviously proud of his car. There is such a thing as tact and diplomacy. I think it would have been better manners for him to say, hey, thats a beautiful watch too.

Save the frank comments for a time when you know each other a little better. There's a time and place.

For example. Here on the forum, guy works hard, saves his money and buys a blue 2 tone Sub. Truly not my cup of tea. :) But my god, why on earth would I go and post that in his thread?

[phillycheez]

The "he's envious, jealous, cheap, can't afford, omega lover comments" are so disgusting it makes me feel sick being associated with the brand Rolex. I don't understand why so many here think just because you are wearing a Rolex means people should respect you, get on their knees and kiss your ass.

I love Rolex but I definitely don't love the superiority complex that comes with it.

[superdog]

Originally Posted by phillycheez

The "he's envious, jealous, cheap, can't afford, omega lover comments" are so disgusting it makes me feel sick being associated with the brand Rolex. I don't understand why so many here think just because you are wearing a Rolex means people should respect you, get on their knees and kiss your ass.

I love Rolex but I definitely don't love the superiority complex that comes with it.

while that is a little bit strong, i have to admit that i pretty much agree with you.

the jealous comments, IMHO, are pretty much out of line and out of whack with reality.

as some of the mods say, many people just wear the brand. that is wherein the problem lies.

[wantonebad]

If I don't like something I usually keep it to myself...

[bigbear]

I think you guys are reading way into "not my cup of tea". It is just a comment. It could be said out of jealousy, envy or any other reason. When I see these mulitmillion dollar penthouses in Manhattan, I say the same "not my cup of tea.:. Maybe it is not his style - maybe he thinks of watches the way some think of cars -- get from point A to point B -- or to tell time.
Just because you are in love with your watch, doesn't mean the world has to appreciate it or do the same. Your reasons for having it are asvalid as his reasons for not having it.

[Rebel]

[phillycheez]

Originally Posted by superdog

while that is a little bit strong, i have to admit that i pretty much agree with you.

Yeah, sorry about that. I did come off strong but it has been somethin that's bothered me for a while. I see these type of comments all the time on trf in a lot of threads. I understand the Rolex consumer is a wide range of people and most do wear it for that crown but jeez... Some posts just really irk me.

Reality is.. Rolex is actually affordable to the average middle class. This isn't the super elite or some exclusive club.

[bigbear]

Originally Posted by phillycheez

Yeah, sorry about that. I did come off strong but it has been somethin that's bothered me for a while. I see these type of comments all the time on trf in a lot of threads. I understand the Rolex consumer is a wide range of people and most do wear it for that crown but jeez... Some posts just really irk me.

Reality is.. Rolex is actually affordable to the average middle class. This isn't the super elite or some exclusive club.

You are correct. I have seen most people on this board, worship ROLEX without really admitting to any negatives, no good reason -- just the crown.

[TimothyNelson]

One guy told me that he didn't like Rolex because 'too many of them are fake' - Whatever.

[Mystro]

Yup,...I own many brands and contribute on other watch forums and this "My watch cost more so its better" mentality is what fuels the "Rolex hate" from other brands that are as good or even better,horologically speaking. Its juvenile, and pompous. Take a step back and look at these comments from a newbie point of view and it isnt flattering at all. I am all for the "Yay for the home team pride" but character, humility and graciousness should also shine through first and foremost.

Originally Posted by phillycheez

The "he's envious, jealous, cheap, can't afford, omega lover comments" are so disgusting it makes me feel sick being associated with the brand Rolex. I don't understand why so many here think just because you are wearing a Rolex means people should respect you, get on their knees and kiss your ass.

I love Rolex but I definitely don't love the superiority complex that comes with it.

[mltworldwide]

No one ever said anything disrespectful of my watches because I have impeccable taste. lol. Seriously, it's best to just say "very nice" even if it's not your cup of tea. Some people have bad manners.

[MrLee]

Originally Posted by phillycheez

The "he's envious, jealous, cheap, can't afford, omega lover comments" are so disgusting it makes me feel sick being associated with the brand Rolex. I don't understand why so many here think just because you are wearing a Rolex means people should respect you, get on their knees and kiss your ass.

I love Rolex but I definitely don't love the superiority complex that comes with it.

That's not the case with any Rolex owner I know. It's the people who own other brands that seem to have the complex....then end up buying one after hating on them for years. Most Rolex owners like on this forum for instance like other brands like omega as well and don't go slagging them off but appreciate that they are great watches as well. But when an omega/tag owner shows off their watch and notices you got a Rolex on THEY seem to get the inferiority complex. Silly but that's the way it goes I suppose.

[HDHNTER]

Much to do about nothing IMHO & for what it's worth, maybe he just wasn't a fan of TT watches. Regardless, you bought it because YOU like it right?

To be honest, I find some of the replies in this thread far more asinine than "it's not my cup of tea". Man up & quit worrying about what others think.

[JP Chestnut]

Originally Posted by phillycheez

The "he's envious, jealous, cheap, can't afford, omega lover comments" are so disgusting it makes me feel sick being associated with the brand Rolex. I don't understand why so many here think just because you are wearing a Rolex means people should respect you, get on their knees and kiss your ass.

I love Rolex but I definitely don't love the superiority complex that comes with it.

I agree with you. Additionally having thought about it a little more, I would never have taken off my watch and pushed it on someone without their asking. The guy may have thought that it was totally uncouth of the OP to do that and chose to give him a subtle rebuke to his ego (which seems to have worked).

[superdog]

Originally Posted by HDHNTER

Much to do about nothing IMHO & for what it's worth, maybe he just wasn't a fan of TT watches. Regardless, you bought it because YOU like it right?

To be honest, I find some of the replies in this thread far more asinine than "it's not my cup of tea". Man up & quit worrying about what others think.

[Memphis]

What kind of a client? Whale or not? i know a lot of whales say things like this to see your reaction. basically testing how far he can go, if you dont take his bs he takes his business somewhere else. If you make a joke about it an brush it off and you both get a kick out it, he'll stay w/you. some people are truly weird and i've seen the above scenario happen.

[Reu]

I see you're a new member to the forum, so welcome.

Aside from that though, and genuinely no offence meant, but...

... Why is this even a post??

Who cares that he didn't like your watch. Why would you be bothered that he didn't care for it?

Also, I feel sorry for you... What with all of the others on this site being over-analytical about him saying 'not my cup of tea'... you've got no chance.

The guy simply told you that the watch you were wearing wasn't to his taste. WHY do I even need to say this!

Weird, man.

This forum scares me sometimes.

[kkwn98]

Originally Posted by HDHNTER

Much to do about nothing IMHO & for what it's worth, maybe he just wasn't a fan of TT watches. Regardless, you bought it because YOU like it right?

To be honest, I find some of the replies in this thread far more asinine than "it's not my cup of tea". Man up & quit worrying about what others think.

Agree. Some really insecure people on this forum overreacting to a complete non-issue. Surprised the customary "If it were me, I woulda punched him" type post hasn't surfaced yet.

[joe100]

Yeah, really a non issue. I wear an AirKing 90% of the time and most of you don't even consider it a Rolex. I still love it and I overlook the negative comments, and there are a lot. Just read any "should I buy an AK or XXX" thread. Too small etc etc

We wear what we like, well at least most of us do. Some people like the popularity contest.

I used to own a 1665 DRSD but I sold it because I just didn't like it. Dug into my hand something fierce. Got my AK and a 1675 and wear the AK more often than anything else. I also have an uber rare american-cased omega seamaster quartz. It's ugly and quartz but sure makes me smile. We all have opinions. The guy was being honest. Actually it seems like a good way to stimulate the conversation by asking why he doesn't like it.

Best regards,

Joe

[Bunny4jeff]

I was on the receiving end of a negative, no, ignorant as well, comment, today in fact, from a Forum member who no doubt thought he was being funny. I have a (good) sense of humour, but as a "newbie" to the Forum, I was asking advice. It's people like him who put newcomers off, from the beginning, of ever making use of and hopefully one day contributing to a Forum like this. He hasn't managed to put me off, because people like that are water off a duck's back to me. He will only have made himself look the idiot he seems to be.