Bank Account Reaches High But Desire Fades?

[rolexsubdate]

Many times I have noticed what happens to me is that I like a particular watch and start saving $$ for it. So I have a special account where I throw the $$ for these toys ....I go to the malls or AD and try it out, or look at the window display and drool over it ....It adds to the pleasure of saving....

A year or two later, the account exceeds the purchase price of the watch. So now I am able to buy. I go to take a look at the watch and it doesn't seem all that it seemed before because now my ability to make the purchase is there ....sometimes I end up buying, other times I do not. Then i realize, it wasn't the watch, it was the chase that was exciting ... othertimes, it is the watch ....

So does this type of thing happen to others who have multiple watches?

[bluemartinifan]

Does not happen to me because I am usually not that patient...

I love that you plan for the purchase and end up truly deserving to buy your watch because you saved for it. Think how many times people "drool" over a watch - want immediate gratification, put it on plastic, then realize it wasnt for them or now are lusting after another.
Now your fund is set and you have many choices.

[speedo]

Originally Posted by rolexsubdate

Many times I have noticed what happens to me is that I like a particular watch and start saving $$ for it. So I have a special account where I throw the $$ for these toys ....I go to the malls or AD and try it out, or look at the window display and drool over it ....It adds to the pleasure of saving....

A year or two later, the account exceeds the purchase price of the watch. So now I am able to buy. I go to take a look at the watch and it doesn't seem all that it seemed before because now my ability to make the purchase is there ....sometimes I end up buying, other times I do not. Then i realize, it wasn't the watch, it was the chase that was exciting ... othertimes, it is the watch ....

So does this type of thing happen to others who have multiple watches?

The chase is better than the catch.

[cronin]

Originally Posted by speedo

The chase is better than the catch.

I agree the anticipation of getting a new watch can often be far more exciting than actually receiving it. I buy most of my watches pre-owned so the day they are coming in the mail there is nothing better.

[nauticajoe]

Originally Posted by speedo

the chase is better than the catch.

x2.

[theken]

""So does this type of thing happen to others who have multiple watches? "
Yes, but less now than in the past.
I try to make the watches I add to my collection a better "fit".
I also realize there are many watch brands that I like but I probably would never wear.

[RLXSTR]

Yes the chase is better than the catch. This happens to me with cars. But I look at the catch is a luxury item that got me to save which is hard to do for many these days.

Since I'm more of an impulse buyer...the catch is usually reeled in pretty quickly.

[ft laud mike]

Originally Posted by speedo

The chase is better than the catch.

can be said about many things in life...

[JJ Irani]

Originally Posted by speedo

The chase is better than the catch.

Yes, more so if it involves the absence of a bezel protector!!

[Fiery]

I cannot imagine saving up for such a long time for a watch. But I agree, in several cases the chase could be better than the catch.

[spuds]

I kinda know how you feel mate.

Took me eighteen months to save for my GMTIIc & I've only had it a few days & I almost miss that 'hunger' even though I lurrrrrrrrve my watch!

I don't think it's that the watch is a disappointment as such but more acurately..... IMHO.... the thrill of that particular chase is over.

(So I've set my sights on another one!!)

[chet]

Very common. I have a client who saved for a plane. He said it was
a letdown when he finally got it.

[speedo]

Originally Posted by chet

Very common. I have a client who saved for a plane. He said it was
a letdown when he finally got it.

i feel deeply sorry for him. don't you want to pass him my email address. he can contact me any time!

[Rscmaine]

This is an actual 'syndrome' - after the end of the first Gulf War doctors reported a rise in lethergy and listlessness amongst folks who had watched every minute of the coverage.

You have a gap in your normal pattern - fill that time with something new, like heavy drinking, and it will pass quickly.

[speedo]

Originally Posted by Rscmaine

This is an actual 'syndrome' - after the end of the first Gulf War doctors reported a rise in lethergy and listlessness amongst folks who had watched every minute of the coverage.

You have a gap in your normal pattern - fill that time with something new, like heavy drinking, and it will pass quickly.

To be honest, I've never gotten to understand that. If I save for something and then I get it I am happy. Am I just too shallow?

[seedgun]

I'd say I have the same feeling. I enjoy the reasearch, the looking and searching, then the negotiation, and sometimes the selling off to finance, then when the new acquisition comes it's nice but it's soon time to start the cycle again.
I have observed the same thing in my other collecting activites, Old toy trains and classsic american small pellet accelerators- all have the same cycle. I guess what I'm saying is the thrill of the hunt and the anticipation are the best part and then the actual arrival is almost a non event. Perhaps it's just me but I see the same pattern in many other folks that are serial collectors.
I have a friend that collects Ferraris and he is exactly the same- once it's delivered and he drives it a few times it's time in his garage may be short.
Andy

[jtrader]

Yea I think it's the thrill. The ability to make a choice and buy just about anything in the store. But your in search of only one thing so you try as many watches on as you can and go to several AD's knowing at any time you can drop your cash on the table and make a purchase.

[Rodmo]

Yes this happens to me as well.

I attribute some of my feelings to the tough economic times. Before spending several thousand dollars of hard earned money I really think twice. I want a solid nest egg to see my wife and I through hard times. We both wear Rolex, and enjoy the watches, so we don't feel as if we are deprived.

My view is that you are thinking responsibly, and will take a responsible decision either way. Good on you.......

[want to be]

Same thing with WOMEN!

[ducatidoc]

Originally Posted by want to be

Same thing with WOMEN!

Yep. You save up to buy the one you really want, shell out an obscene of $$, etc,etc. Difference is the watch is reliable, makes little, if any sound, costs way less to maintain, and you can always sell the it, and recoup some of your investment.

[spuds]

Originally Posted by ducatidoc

Yep. You save up to buy the one you really want, shell out an obscene of $$, etc,etc. Difference is the watch is reliable, makes little, if any sound, costs way less to maintain, and you can always sell the it, and recoup some of your investment.

[sakuraba]

Originally Posted by ducatidoc

Yep. You save up to buy the one you really want, shell out an obscene of $$, etc,etc. Difference is the watch is reliable, makes little, if any sound, costs way less to maintain, and you can always sell the it, and recoup some of your investment.

Plus, my watch is always on time!

[2005rivers]

I'm an impulse buyer, so no I don't have that problem.

[ESKO]

Originally Posted by 2005rivers

I'm an impulse buyer, so no I don't have that problem.

Me too, my problem is REGRET! hahahha

[Taffi Abernathy]

Originally Posted by spuds

Took me eighteen months to save for my GMTIIc & I've only had it a few days & I almost miss that 'hunger' even though I lurrrrrrrrve my watch!

I don't think it's that the watch is a disappointment as such but more acurately..... IMHO.... the thrill of that particular chase is over.

(So I've set my sights on another one!!)

Originally Posted by spuds

WOW.



.......& there was me thinking I just like wearing a nice watch & having something a bit more personal than money that I can leave my boys too.

Dear spuds,

Let's put your car into reverse gear and back up a few feet . . . Here are your two posts, each with a decidedly different tone. The first one left me with the impression that you were somewhat caught up in "the chase," and my narrative was directed towards providing information which might be helpful to those wanting a deeper understanding of the dynamics of the chase. In your second post, you present an entirely different scenario with different motivating factors. Even Freud acknowledged that "Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar." Take what works for you and leave the rest. Best wishes, Faith

[rsg]

Originally Posted by Taffi Abernathy

Even Freud acknowledged that "Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar." Take what works for you and leave the rest. Best wishes, Faith

Faith, have you read Running with Scissors? I'm about halfway through it and so far it's an interesting read.


When something starts to lose it luster for me I try to use it to see if I still want it. My watches for example, I try to take them out every weekend to clean and polish them. When doing so I remember where I bought them ( Datejust, family vacation to Mexico), why I bought them (President, sold my first company), and what I was feeling at the time, etc. This usually results in something that has been sitting for a while making it's way back into regular rotation.
The chase is always exciting, but I rarely get buyers remorse.

[spuds]

Originally Posted by Taffi Abernathy

Dear spuds,

Let's put your car into reverse gear and back up a few feet . . . Here are your two posts, each with a decidedly different tone. The first one left me with the impression that you were somewhat caught up in "the chase," and my narrative was directed towards providing information which might be helpful to those wanting a deeper understanding of the dynamics of the chase. In your second post, you present an entirely different scenario with different motivating factors. Even Freud acknowledged that "Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar." Take what works for you and leave the rest. Best wishes, Faith

No offence no disrespect intended Faith I assure you.

I just honestly don't believe my watches (nor the 'thrill of the chase') is in any way a replacement for something I'm lacking emotionally, nor psychologically.

I enjoy the 'hunt'.
I enjoy the 'chase'.
I enjoy wearing the watch.



By my second post I simply meant that I don't (over?) analyze any aspect of it.

However I formally & publicly apologise if I 'appeared' disrespectful to you in any way: it was honestly not my intention & you are obviously entitled to your (well-respected) opinion.

[seedgun]

I'm afraid Faith is correct, thus I need to try to truly understand my motivations. If I'm doing it for the knowlege and the great folks I get to meet as I expand my various collections it's probably fine.
If I'm doing it just for the thrill of acquisition probably not so good. If I'm doing it so that I have inventory to open a Pawn shop someday probably good.
Oh well this is getting to serious here, I'd better go back to the for sale section.
Andy

[Taffi Abernathy]

Originally Posted by spuds

No offence no disrespect intended Faith I assure you.

I just honestly don't believe my watches (nor the 'thrill of the chase') is in any way a replacement for something I'm lacking emotionally, nor psychologically.

I enjoy the 'hunt'.
I enjoy the 'chase'.
I enjoy wearing the watch.



By my second post I simply meant that I don't (over?) analyze any aspect of it.

However I formally & publicly apologise if I 'appeared' disrespectful to you in any way: it was honestly not my intention & you are obviously entitled to your (well-respected) opinion.

Dan,

I believe you and am not in the least bit offended. In fact, I appreciate your clarification. People can be motivated to do things for any number of reasons. (I just wish I were one of your beneficiaries! ) Take care, Faith

[hennabav]

I definitely have that problem. Anything serious I buy, I think twice if not three times. Therefore sometimes by the time I have enough to purchase it, my interest runs out and I go for something else. Or it just doesn't feel that special to me anymore. Like people here say, its more in the chase for me. Especially for watches that are rare.