What's The Last Thing That Touched You Deeply?

[Taffi Abernathy]

What's The Last Thing That Happened Which Touched You Deeply?

As I was walking Taffi a short while ago, my mind drifted to something which occurred a few days prior . . . I had taken my mother shopping at the supermarket earlier and just finished carrying her bags to her apartment. As I was leaving and heading down the steps, she followed me to the door and in the most gentle voice said, "Faith, you are a wonderful daughter." Those words touched me to my core, causing me to spontaneously fill up with tears. I immediately put my head down so she couldn't see how deeply I had been touched. I also heard myself respond to her in a nonchalant sounding voice, "Oh, no problem." "No problem," what kind of feeble response was that?! You see, my family has traditionally dealt with one another using sarcasm and wit, and as most of you know who have read my posts, this is the level at which I feel most comfortable communicating. But my mother has leukemia and although I know that she knows I love her, she needs to hear it from me before it's too late.

Well, no sarcasm from me tonight. I'm out of my element and hope I've not been too emotionally effusive. My thinking was if I'm asking posters to put aside their defenses to talk about their feelings, than I need to walk down that plank as well. So won't you share with us, what has touched you deeply?

[barber]

The U.S. Soldier being held captive in Aganistan

[JJ Irani]

Very touching, Faith.......in fact, simply beautiful!!

Mine was just the other day when our darling little grand-daughter (Annika) turned to Zemina and me and said: "Granny, grandpa.......I don't want either of you to ever die!"

She is our little, soon-to-be 8 year old favourite and spends every weekend with us.

My daughter, Yasmin (Annika's mother) is always worried what poor Annika would go through if anything ever happened to any one of us.

JJ

[abigsecret]

A few weeks ago I saw a documentary on TLC about children with Progeria.
There was a Belgian family featured that had 2 children that suffer from that horrible disease, and it really broke my heart. Next day I looked up their website (www.progeria.be) and e-mailed them to wish them the best. They e-mailed me back with a beautiful picture ad a touching note.
I truly hope they'll find a cure for these beautiful, courageous children!

[JimSnyder]

Faith that is a wonderful and very moving moment! For me it was the thoughtfulness shown to my daughter and my new grandaughter by 2 of TRFs finest members. I can't thank them enough for what they did

[away36]

Reading your post just now, Faith. Both your honesty and your mother's situation brought tears to my eyes.

[jdc]

night nurse '76 keep your eye out for the court appearance

[Dr.B]

The death of Neda Agha-Soltan a young Iranian protester.........

[Dan Pierce]

My last colonoscopy. Sorry, I just had to.







In all seriousness, while leaving a local veterans hospital where my band played for the monthly birthday party I bumped into a very elderly veteran leaning in a wheelchair [because the rest of his body was missing from the ribcage down]. I stumbled for something intelligent to say and blurted out "how are you, sir?" He looked at me and smiled, then said "I'm blessed."
I'll never forget it.
dP

[AWATCH]

Faith , your story is very moving and has brought me some old memories, Thank you
al

[sexner]

My Uncle Walt's funeral in the Spring.

My Uncle Harvey delivered a very touching eulogy, that of course, described the essence of his older brother perfectly.

I was moved.

[R1@160@alltimes]

My grandmother's funeral in May. RIP...I love you.

[Jimbits76]

Originally Posted by jdc

night nurse '76 keep your eye out for the court appearance

I was goning to say something crass but after reading the posts decided against it.

The last thing that touched me deeply was the support Mireyna and I recieved when we started the fund for JJ's grandson Ronan.

Many members here took the time and effort to pledge their own hardearned for the sick grandson of a member who many have probably not even spoken to, let alone met.

We've kept it as private and behind the scenes as possible but I just felt that this thread was a good opportunity to say thank you and to acknowledge what a wonderful membership we have have on this forum.



Jim

[idk01]

I am touched every day seeing my little Raiyne grow up, I return from jobs over a dozen times a day and get a very warm welcome of "Daddy's home" and a big cuddle, makes every day a wonderful day!

[allanofcalifornia]

My mother's death last year which is still close and dear to me. Also the hell I went through the last 3 months of last year which led to my major surgery at the beginning of this year. I was so thankful to have my wife with me during this time because at times it felt like I wasn't going to make it!


Allan

[boa2]

Originally Posted by Taffi Abernathy

What's The Last Thing That Happened Which Touched You Deeply?

As I was walking Taffi a short while ago, my mind drifted to something which occurred a few days prior . . . I had taken my mother shopping at the supermarket earlier and just finished carrying her bags to her apartment. As I was leaving and heading down the steps, she followed me to the door and in the most gentle voice said, "Faith, you are a wonderful daughter." Those words touched me to my core, causing me to spontaneously fill up with tears. I immediately put my head down so she couldn't see how deeply I had been touched. I also heard myself respond to her in a nonchalant sounding voice, "Oh, no problem." "No problem," what kind of feeble response was that?! You see, my family has traditionally dealt with one another using sarcasm and wit, and as most of you know who have read my posts, this is the level at which I feel most comfortable communicating. But my mother has leukemia and although I know that she knows I love her, she needs to hear it from me before it's too late.

Very touching moment, Faith. I hope you let loose and tell her how you feel. You're obviously grateful for who she is.

Recently, two things touched me deeply:

First, the overwhelming response I received here when I posted about my friend dying. This community amazes me all the time.

The other thing that really touched me is that after talking to my mom last weekend for an hour on the phone, and saying goodbye, she called back two minutes later just to tell me how amazed she is by the person I am. What else can I say, other than I feel really lucky she's my mom.

[cosimo]

On July 3 at 730 am I began cpr on my two year old son. He passed away shortly there after. As for being touched deeply, the loss of his smile and voice and spirit and courage are only matched by the void he left behind.

To any of you who have children I would recommend you hug them and love them as soon as you next see them. All of the late nights, diapers, teething and all of the things you may think are a little difficult at the time become memories that you cherish and would give your life to experience once again.

[allanofcalifornia]

Originally Posted by cosimo

On July 3 at 730 am I began cpr on my two year old son. He passed away shortly there after. As for being touched deeply, the loss of his smile and voice and spirit and courage are only matched by the void he left behind.

To any of you who have children I would recommend you hug them and love them as soon as you next see them. All of the late nights, diapers, teething and all of the things you may think are a little difficult at the time become memories that you cherish and would give your life to experience once again.

I am so very sorry! I can't start to imagine how it must feel or what you are going through. I don't know how I would be able to get through the day! Our prayers and hearts are with you as you are going through this rough time in your life!!


Allan

[Taffi Abernathy]

Originally Posted by cosimo

On July 3 at 730 am I began cpr on my two year old son. He passed away shortly there after. As for being touched deeply, the loss of his smile and voice and spirit and courage are only matched by the void he left behind.

To any of you who have children I would recommend you hug them and love them as soon as you next see them. All of the late nights, diapers, teething and all of the things you may think are a little difficult at the time become memories that you cherish and would give your life to experience once again.

I can't imagine to know what it must be like losing a child. The world would never be the same again. It must have taken (and perhaps it still does) everything you had to get out of bed and go on with the process of living, yet somehow, that is what you do. I am deeply touched and honored that you chose to share this with us, and my prayers and very best wishes are with you. Faith

[away36]

Originally Posted by cosimo

On July 3 at 730 am I began cpr on my two year old son. He passed away shortly there after. As for being touched deeply, the loss of his smile and voice and spirit and courage are only matched by the void he left behind.

To any of you who have children I would recommend you hug them and love them as soon as you next see them. All of the late nights, diapers, teething and all of the things you may think are a little difficult at the time become memories that you cherish and would give your life to experience once again.

My sister and my brother each lost a child, so I can very easily imagine the emotional agony you are enduring. Please know that even though we don't know you personally, we care very very much. You will be in our thoughts and prayers every moment.

[AWATCH]

[QUOTE=cosimo;1298799]On July 3 at 730 am I began cpr on my two year old son. He passed away shortly there after. As for being touched deeply, the loss of his smile and voice and spirit and courage are only matched by the void he left behind.

To any of you who have children I would recommend you hug them and love them as soon as you next see them. All of the late nights, diapers, teething and all of the things you may think are a little difficult at the time become memories that you cherish and would give your life to experience once again.[/QUOTE

I am so sorry for your loss. In 1991 I too lost my son of 20 years of age. i do know how you feel and can only say that it is something that will always be with us but it does somehow get a little easier with time and faith.
we have not met but if you want someone to talk with i will be glad to oblige

God Bless
al

[Taffi Abernathy]

Originally Posted by Dan Pierce

My last colonoscopy. Sorry, I just had to.







In all seriousness, while leaving a local veterans hospital where my band played for the monthly birthday party I bumped into a very elderly veteran leaning in a wheelchair [because the rest of his body was missing from the ribcage down]. I stumbled for something intelligent to say and blurted out "how are you, sir?" He looked at me and smiled, then said "I'm blessed."
I'll never forget it.
dP

Dan,

Thanks for this post; it certainly puts things in perspective. Faith

[abigsecret]

Originally Posted by cosimo

On July 3 at 730 am I began cpr on my two year old son. He passed away shortly there after. As for being touched deeply, the loss of his smile and voice and spirit and courage are only matched by the void he left behind.

To any of you who have children I would recommend you hug them and love them as soon as you next see them. All of the late nights, diapers, teething and all of the things you may think are a little difficult at the time become memories that you cherish and would give your life to experience once again.

I wish I could say something that would make it all better. I am so sorry for your loss!
Thanks for the advise, I'll go and kiss my little girl right now!

[abigsecret]

Originally Posted by idk01

I am touched every day seeing my little Raiyne grow up, I return from jobs over a dozen times a day and get a very warm welcome of "Daddy's home" and a big cuddle, makes every day a wonderful day!

Dave, she is soooo beautiful!

[abigsecret]

Originally Posted by Jimbits76

I was goning to say something crass but after reading the posts decided against it.

The last thing that touched me deeply was the support Mireyna and I recieved when we started the fund for JJ's grandson Ronan.

Many members here took the time and effort to pledge their own hardearned for the sick grandson of a member who many have probably not even spoken to, let alone met.

We've kept it as private and behind the scenes as possible but I just felt that this thread was a good opportunity to say thank you and to acknowledge what a wonderful membership we have have on this forum.



Jim

Jim's right! I am also very touched by all the supports that was given to Ronan and his family! The members on this forum have a heart of gold!

[Taffi Abernathy]

Originally Posted by abigsecret

Jim's right! I am also very touched by all the supports that was given to Ronan and his family! The members on this forum have a heart of gold!

So true, Mireyna. I think I may have initially underestimated the degree of support which is generated by many forum members. There are clearly a number of good people here.

[Jimbits76]

Originally Posted by cosimo

On July 3 at 730 am I began cpr on my two year old son. He passed away shortly there after. As for being touched deeply, the loss of his smile and voice and spirit and courage are only matched by the void he left behind.

To any of you who have children I would recommend you hug them and love them as soon as you next see them. All of the late nights, diapers, teething and all of the things you may think are a little difficult at the time become memories that you cherish and would give your life to experience once again.

That made me cry.

I am so sorry!

Jim

[JJ Irani]

Originally Posted by cosimo

On July 3 at 730 am I began cpr on my two year old son. He passed away shortly there after. As for being touched deeply, the loss of his smile and voice and spirit and courage are only matched by the void he left behind.

To any of you who have children I would recommend you hug them and love them as soon as you next see them. All of the late nights, diapers, teething and all of the things you may think are a little difficult at the time become memories that you cherish and would give your life to experience once again.

That would have to be one of the most heart-wrenching stories I've ever read on TRF. It has saddened me immensely. Words cannot describe how devastated I feel now having read about your tremendous loss.

What can I say.....except that you have my very deepest sympathies. Be strong, my friend......and at least take comfort in the fact that he's now in the Kingdom of Heaven - I cannot stop weeping.

Sorry - JJ

[daveathall]

The other day my 6 year old nephew asked my 4 year old Granddaughter about her daddy, she answered truthfully "I dont have a daddy"

My heart broke.

[Goodwatch]

The small boy selling packets of food at the exit of a mall in Malang, Indonesia at 11 PM. I think he was 5 years old. We gave him enough money to buy the complete content of his basket without wanting it. The look on his face still brings me joy if I think (think...) I have a bad time myself. We are the privileged ones.