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SDman · 19 February 2007, 01:16 PM

hhhmm that's a big dillema I would suggest to tell him the truth before some jerk does but not in front of his family otherwise if the commander was an a-hole let it rip right in front of everyone...

High-Gear · 19 February 2007, 02:26 PM

Thanks for all of the input guys. The man is a really nice guy, and I'd really hate to come across as one upping him. Talk about causing friction between two teams. Maybe one day when we know each other better and are alone drinking beers, I'll mention it. Maybe deep down he knows, but likes to share the sentiment beind it. At any rate it sounds like I am on the right track.

rolexfan21 · 19 February 2007, 02:32 PM

If you think you were hurting his feelings by telling him it was fake i wouldnt tell him then. I've met a lot of people that have lied to me about where they live and what car they drive and all that stuff but i dont say a damn thing about it. I feel sorry for the guy... and if his wife was cheating on him and he didnt know about it and was still happy. Id tell him... but because its just a watch and he is happy with his watch theres no need to lower his confidence. Just my opinion. I dont want to hurt anyone's feelings.

Blown Wide Open · 19 February 2007, 02:37 PM

Why should you be the one to rain on that gentleman's parade, and possibly step into a compromising situatuion.

I would smile and say nice watch and leave it at that.

Later if he for some reason asks you about it's authenticity...I would nicely study it, and say that you have your doubts now that you looked at it, and will gladly recomend and AD to confirm.

You didn't buy the fake, it's not you job to point it out.

PAtrick

ROLEX4FD · 19 February 2007, 03:00 PM

No reason to ruin his day or his pride in that it was a gift that he obviously holds great esteem for. Should he find out on his own, then so be it. Telling him will in any number of ways result in not being a good thing for you. He may know it's a fake and still be very proud of it because of the sentiment that was attached. Tough situation - but in the end, not your issue to solve.

ezmoney46 · 19 February 2007, 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by JJ Irani

Well said, Rich....I think I'll endorse that!!

I agree.

fat-sam · 19 February 2007, 10:37 PM

when there are guns about- it aint the best time to upset people

Prince · 19 February 2007, 11:36 PM

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Originally Posted by fat-sam

when there are guns about- it aint the best time to upset people

You got that right, Sam!!!

oldbreadstinks · 20 February 2007, 12:08 AM

just tell him its a nice watch and then let him know the colour's coming off.

leopardprey · 20 February 2007, 12:20 AM

You said the right thing. I would not say anything else to him. It would not do any good. In his mind he has a Rolex, telling him otherwise will just be bad for you. He will probably find out one of these days on his own.

sinbad · 20 February 2007, 03:00 AM

Sentimental value is worth more than the amount spent. Maybe he already knows that it is a fake but appreciates the gift. It is likely that he doesn't care about watches the way we do on this forum (otherwise he would be member LOL - maybe he is and has read everything we wrote and now knows). Anyhow, I would recommend you keep mute about it being a fake. You did the right thing complimenting him on receiving a thoughtful gift. He will figure it out on his own some day.

20 February 2007, 03:12 AM

I agree with those who have said you have done the right things so far. As the saying goes "It's the thought that counts."

I also agree that you would be best to leave it alone, but with one caveat:

If you are percieved as a "watch expert" by this person, and he finds out sometime later that his watch is a fake, he may not like the idea that you have "let him" continue thinking that his watch is real when you (likely) knew it wasn't.

Not trying to change your mind but just presenting another possible ramification that I hadn't seen anyone bring up yet. Good luck with whatever you choose.

19 February 2007, 02:37 PM	#34
Blown Wide Open "TRF" Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Real Name: Patrick Location: Pennsylvania Watch: All with a crown. Posts: 504	Why should you be the one to rain on that gentleman's parade, and possibly step into a compromising situatuion. I would smile and say nice watch and leave it at that. Later if he for some reason asks you about it's authenticity...I would nicely study it, and say that you have your doubts now that you looked at it, and will gladly recomend and AD to confirm. You didn't buy the fake, it's not you job to point it out. PAtrick __________________ "I wouldn't be part of any club that would have me as a member." Instagram: El_Diablo_Rosso

19 February 2007, 10:37 PM	#37
fat-sam "TRF" Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Real Name: Manuel_Winde Location: London N1- UK Watch: Reverso Duoface Posts: 578	when there are guns about- it aint the best time to upset people __________________ This confession has meant nothing

19 February 2007, 01:16 PM	#31
SDman Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Real Name: Pat Location: Australia Watch: Sea Dweller Posts: 152	hhhmm that's a big dillema I would suggest to tell him the truth before some jerk does but not in front of his family otherwise if the commander was an a-hole let it rip right in front of everyone...

19 February 2007, 02:26 PM	#32
High-Gear Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Kansas, USA Posts: 70	Thanks for all of the input guys. The man is a really nice guy, and I'd really hate to come across as one upping him. Talk about causing friction between two teams. Maybe one day when we know each other better and are alone drinking beers, I'll mention it. Maybe deep down he knows, but likes to share the sentiment beind it. At any rate it sounds like I am on the right track.

19 February 2007, 02:32 PM	#33
rolexfan21 Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Toronto Watch: 16610 Posts: 379	If you think you were hurting his feelings by telling him it was fake i wouldnt tell him then. I've met a lot of people that have lied to me about where they live and what car they drive and all that stuff but i dont say a damn thing about it. I feel sorry for the guy... and if his wife was cheating on him and he didnt know about it and was still happy. Id tell him... but because its just a watch and he is happy with his watch theres no need to lower his confidence. Just my opinion. I dont want to hurt anyone's feelings.

19 February 2007, 03:00 PM	#35
ROLEX4FD Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: San Diego Watch: TT Blue Sub & SDDS Posts: 105	No reason to ruin his day or his pride in that it was a gift that he obviously holds great esteem for. Should he find out on his own, then so be it. Telling him will in any number of ways result in not being a good thing for you. He may know it's a fake and still be very proud of it because of the sentiment that was attached. Tough situation - but in the end, not your issue to solve.

20 February 2007, 12:08 AM	#39
oldbreadstinks Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: sg Posts: 568	just tell him its a nice watch and then let him know the colour's coming off.

20 February 2007, 12:20 AM	#40
leopardprey Banned Join Date: Nov 2006 Real Name: Chad Location: Around the world Watch: Panerai 233 Posts: 4,204	You said the right thing. I would not say anything else to him. It would not do any good. In his mind he has a Rolex, telling him otherwise will just be bad for you. He will probably find out one of these days on his own.

20 February 2007, 03:00 AM	#41
sinbad "TRF" Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Midwest U.S. Posts: 164	Sentimental value is worth more than the amount spent. Maybe he already knows that it is a fake but appreciates the gift. It is likely that he doesn't care about watches the way we do on this forum (otherwise he would be member LOL - maybe he is and has read everything we wrote and now knows). Anyhow, I would recommend you keep mute about it being a fake. You did the right thing complimenting him on receiving a thoughtful gift. He will figure it out on his own some day.

20 February 2007, 03:12 AM	#42
---- Guest Posts: n/a	I agree with those who have said you have done the right things so far. As the saying goes "It's the thought that counts." I also agree that you would be best to leave it alone, but with one caveat: If you are percieved as a "watch expert" by this person, and he finds out sometime later that his watch is a fake, he may not like the idea that you have "let him" continue thinking that his watch is real when you (likely) knew it wasn't. Not trying to change your mind but just presenting another possible ramification that I hadn't seen anyone bring up yet. Good luck with whatever you choose.

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