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Old 17 December 2016, 01:06 AM   #1
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To wear a Rolex or not wear a Rolex

I have a christmas party tonight at a customer's house and I really want to wear my new Rolex, but I am afraid they might notice. Maybe they will think I am charging them too much? Maybe they won't notice and I can enjoy wearing my new watch....I just can't decide what is best. Also, I work for my family business and my parents and grandparents might notice my new watch. We all make good money, but spend it on different things. They would think an expensive watch is ridiculous....just not sure what to do. If it matters, the customer hosting the party tonight is very wealthy.
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Old 17 December 2016, 03:15 AM   #2
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You are putting way too much thought into a watch.

Almost nobody will even know that you are wearing one, let alone what make and model it may be.
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Old 17 December 2016, 03:17 AM   #3
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You wear it simples.

What model is it?
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Old 17 December 2016, 03:21 AM   #4
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I have a christmas party tonight at a customer's house and I really want to wear my new Rolex, but I am afraid they might notice. Maybe they will think I am charging them too much? Maybe they won't notice and I can enjoy wearing my new watch....I just can't decide what is best. Also, I work for my family business and my parents and grandparents might notice my new watch. We all make good money, but spend it on different things. They would think an expensive watch is ridiculous....just not sure what to do. If it matters, the customer hosting the party tonight is very wealthy.
If you're THAT concerned about what others think and how they may react to your timepiece, I'd venture to say that you probably shouldn't even have a Rolex. Wear it for you. No one else.
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Old 17 December 2016, 03:30 AM   #5
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Did you not buy the watch to wear it?
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Old 17 December 2016, 03:31 AM   #6
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Wear the watch and enjoy it, who care what anyone else will think?
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Old 17 December 2016, 03:32 AM   #7
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Old 17 December 2016, 03:32 AM   #8
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Agree with Opus. Wear the watch for you. You are free to do whatever you want with your money. If you have to worry what company you wear your watch in then I say sell it.

If your customer is THAT wealthy then maybe you aren't charging him enough. Goes both ways.
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Old 17 December 2016, 03:34 AM   #9
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Wear it. Your parents will get over it too. Most people don't notice watches.
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Old 17 December 2016, 03:34 AM   #10
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Must wear it! Nothing wrong with being a little socially conscious, but you bought the watch to wear so wear it.
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Old 17 December 2016, 03:38 AM   #11
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Think of it like wearing a pink shirt to the occasion. It's just a pink shirt. If you are awkward because you're in a pink shirt, that's all on you. Now if you're comfortable wearing your pink shirt, no one will mention it except maybe to say, "I like your shirt."

That being said, if you're the type that can't wear a pink shirt because you have some overwhelming fear everyone is going to be judging you and you can't stand the thought of ANYONE noticing your pink shirt, then sell your Rolex.

Don't worry, be comfortable in yourself and your choices and enjoy the party.
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Old 17 December 2016, 03:43 AM   #12
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Old 17 December 2016, 03:44 AM   #13
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I wear mine all the time, I have not spent all this money on a watch, Not to wear it.
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Old 17 December 2016, 03:52 AM   #14
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This reflects my own thinking:

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Think of it like wearing a pink shirt to the occasion. It's just a pink shirt. If you are awkward because you're in a pink shirt, that's all on you. Now if you're comfortable wearing your pink shirt, no one will mention it except maybe to say, "I like your shirt."

That being said, if you're the type that can't wear a pink shirt because you have some overwhelming fear everyone is going to be judging you and you can't stand the thought of ANYONE noticing your pink shirt, then sell your Rolex.

Don't worry, be comfortable in yourself and your choices and enjoy the party.
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Old 17 December 2016, 03:53 AM   #15
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Old 17 December 2016, 03:54 AM   #16
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Or mask it with an ugly Christmas sweater? The long sleeves will cover it anyways.
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Old 17 December 2016, 03:58 AM   #17
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tell them you bought it with their money.
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Old 17 December 2016, 04:08 AM   #18
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To wear a Rolex or not wear a Rolex

97.3567% of people don't notice what watch one is wearing. If they do then they are one of us (WIS's), in which case it will be appreciated. And maybe start a conversation.

Unless it's blinged out with diamonds, Rolex is not ostentatious (for the most part). In fact, it's on the other end of the spectrum.

Wear the watch for which you paid good money and enjoy it!


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Old 17 December 2016, 04:15 AM   #19
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If you're really that concerned about what others will think of you, will you really enjoy wearing it?

Maybe for the setting, it's not the right watch to wear.

There's nothing wrong with considering the feelings of others, if you think they might be offended or worse.

On the other hand, not many folks pay that much attention to wristwatches these days, unless you're wearing a smartwatch, which I think people do notice.
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Old 17 December 2016, 04:17 AM   #20
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I've never ever worried about wearing a watch of mine (except on a stag do). No point in having it if I can only wear it in specific situations.
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Old 17 December 2016, 04:18 AM   #21
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as long as its not a GOLD with diamonds, no one will notice it . Definitely wear it.
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Old 17 December 2016, 04:19 AM   #22
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I'd wear the watch. Nobody's going to pay enough attention to realize what watch you're wearing anyway.
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Old 17 December 2016, 04:32 AM   #23
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2nd the long sleeved shirt if you are that worried about it - i'd just wear the thing it's just a watch.
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Old 17 December 2016, 04:33 AM   #24
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I am always the guy wearing a pink shirt, yellow pants, bow tie, etc so I am wearing the watch. It is just a SS Sub, so I doubt anyone will notice! Thanks for the advice!
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Old 17 December 2016, 04:37 AM   #25
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Everything stated above is 100% (even the ones that conflict).

But it comes down to you, really: if you're not going to enjoy yourself and will be self-conscious, don't wear it.
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Old 17 December 2016, 04:37 AM   #26
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Don't be afraid to enjoy the fruits of your labour.

Wear it WITH a pink shirt!
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Old 17 December 2016, 04:38 AM   #27
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I never understand this "nobody notices a Rolex" meme on this forum. Rolexes are very heavily-marketed and have got to be the single most recognisable watch brand on earth!

Just most people don't comment, this does not mean they haven't noticed. I was an avid Rolex-spotter for many years before I got one, and I still am.

If you really want to fly under radar, wear a different brand.
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Old 17 December 2016, 05:03 AM   #28
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Anybody can buy a Rolex on payments. If your client suspects you spent too much, just tell him you're making monthly payments on it and you need the business so you can finish the commitment.
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Old 17 December 2016, 05:11 AM   #29
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I never understand this "nobody notices a Rolex" meme on this forum. Rolexes are very heavily-marketed and have got to be the single most recognisable watch brand on earth!

Just most people don't comment, this does not mean they haven't noticed. I was an avid Rolex-spotter for many years before I got one, and I still am.
THIS! I notice every single watch I come across. Maybe it is because I am a watch guy, but I notice everything - Timex, G-Shock, Rolex, everything!
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Old 17 December 2016, 05:30 AM   #30
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Then why buy a Rolex if you are going to worry about what others may or may not think about you wearing one.
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