No idea what to do

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Hey guys, been awhile since I have posted. So some of you may know I have had a 16610 for a year or two. Well I DID have it. Life came and I decided to use it as a down payment on an beautiful tacori engagement ring for my girlfriend of 7 years which I was happy to do. Traded it back to the same shop I bought it from so I wasn't out any money. Now fast forward she has put 2 and 2 together and figured out my beloved Rolex is gone and on her finger. She came to me and wants to buy me a Rolex as a wedding present. I don't know what I should get. I miss my 16610 as it fit my smaller wrist so nice.

She wants to get me a used 118238 as she knows thats my grail watch. She doesn't wanna get me a 16610 then once we get older and I buy a 118238 and the 16610 gets put away and not worn on a daily basis. But i'm only 23 and know for a fact I couldn't ''pull it off'' wearing an all gold watch daily. I can't decide which would be the best route to take. We are both financially sound and either watch wouldn't be a risk to us.

Pick the watch that fits me best now? or
Pick the watch that will suit me better later in life?

Sorry this is so long.