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Old 9 April 2017, 03:37 AM   #1
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I say go for the new job, just manage working for a friend part and you will do great.
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Old 9 April 2017, 04:28 AM   #2
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Old 9 April 2017, 03:37 AM   #3
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If you aren't happy switch. Everything is second to happiness in my opinion. Just make sure that it is the job not you. Sometimes you must realize the situation isn't perfect but what you can control is your happiness.
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Old 9 April 2017, 03:40 AM   #4
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How much travel is required in the new position? If less, how do you weigh that against less autonomy?

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Old 9 April 2017, 04:47 AM   #5
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I would do it Paul. Switch it up!
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Old 9 April 2017, 06:14 AM   #6
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Old 9 April 2017, 09:48 AM   #7
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If you need reasons to stay, leave. It sounds like the autonomy thing won't be too much of a change. Take the money out of it, which role would you be excited to talk about?

Don't be complacent. More is lost by indecision than wrong decision.
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Old 9 April 2017, 10:09 AM   #8
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Maybe the only question yet to be addressed is what watch will you wear the first day?

Change always works out for the better, at least in the long run.


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Old 9 April 2017, 11:14 AM   #9
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If your job is something you enjoy, it's not really work!
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Old 9 April 2017, 11:59 AM   #10
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I say it depends on your personality as well. Are you a risk taker? Or would you be more comfortable staying in a stable role with stable, albeit lower salary? It can also change with different stages in your life although some people will be risk takers and want that extra excitement/challenge most of the time.

Seems from your post you would be the latter, i think?
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Old 9 April 2017, 12:34 PM   #11
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New job so you can commemorate with a new rolex!!

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Old 9 April 2017, 12:35 PM   #12
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Thanks everyone.... I appreciate your opinions. Although change does frighten me, I NEED to be challenged, and I find Engineering much more interesting then managing a bunch of flight instructors. I speak with them again next week, but am taking the next steps.
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Old 9 April 2017, 01:17 PM   #13
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Thanks everyone.... I appreciate your opinions. Although change does frighten me, I NEED to be challenged, and I find Engineering much more interesting then managing a bunch of flight instructors. I speak with them again next week, but am taking the next steps.
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Old 9 April 2017, 12:39 PM   #14
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You should take the job.

Not having autonomy is a bummer, but if you will really enjoy your new work, I am sure you will not mind. Plus, if the money is much better, that means more watches.
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Old 9 April 2017, 01:05 PM   #15
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Definitely ready for a move!! Once the fulfillment ended the writing was on the wall.

I hope the transition into the new gig is seamless and you can get back to feeling accomplished:)
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Old 9 April 2017, 01:22 PM   #16
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With only 2 years at your current company and in a position that is not fulfilling, you know in your heart it's time for a change.
You know the owner of the future company and he has adjusted his offer to make it more attractive to you. Given you know the owner and he is adjusting the offer to address some of your concerns, I feel like the change may not be as dramatic as you perceive. Extra money and growth potential never hurt either.
Go for it.

Disregard this post, seems you made your decision. Good Luck!

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Old 9 April 2017, 02:59 PM   #17
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Helo Paul. It looks like you have your mine set as your current position is not bringing excitement. I agree with most here, good opportunity!
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Old 9 April 2017, 03:20 PM   #18
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Helo Paul. It looks like you have your mine set as your current position is not bringing excitement. I agree with most here, good opportunity!
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Old 9 April 2017, 09:34 PM   #19
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Congrats. Good luck.
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Old 10 April 2017, 12:16 AM   #20
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Sounds like you are on your way, but my advice can still help. It's not just about you. Others have asked you to think about your significant other and about your friend, but you can cast that net wider as well. Which (or does either) offer important work, e.g., to your country or to mankind in general?

A good rubric I've learned from my current company: Is it important? Is it hard? Is it something only I can do?

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Old 10 April 2017, 01:55 AM   #21
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I have the solution, keep current job and buy a new watch !
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Old 10 April 2017, 02:01 AM   #22
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You are already gone Paul. You are already out of that job, you just have not physically left.

I think you have made your decision.
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Old 10 April 2017, 02:05 AM   #23
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Good luck on the new position.

I relate to finding change to be hard, but 6 months or a year into the new job you'll suddenly realize that you've adjusted and gotten your feet under you.
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Old 10 April 2017, 02:09 AM   #24
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At your age, I would take the new job and start really socking away money for retirement. With much more money, you can take an early retirement if you desire, or buy a nicer house near the beach.

In short, plan for retirement. Take the course that will put you in the best position.
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Old 10 April 2017, 03:05 AM   #25
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At your age, I would take the new job and start really socking away money for retirement. With much more money, you can take an early retirement if you desire, or buy a nicer house near the beach.

In short, plan for retirement. Take the course that will put you in the best position.
John, didn't I tell you? I'm moving in with you... Is my room ready yet?
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Old 10 April 2017, 03:07 AM   #26
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You forget we live in a condo. Anyway, best of luck with your decision.

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Old 10 April 2017, 05:04 AM   #27
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Carpe diem, take the new job. Best of luck, but I'm sure you won't need it.
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