Do you or don’t you disclose

[Fat_ninja]

Really depends if u respect your significant other and want to stay married

[andromeda160]

Originally Posted by Abdullah71601

We all have differing opinions of what constitues ripped to shreds. Not getting everything you want is ripped to some people. We also don’t know what Greg’s contribution to the argument was.

We do know that last year Greg took a similar approach to his then girlfriend, which ended up in a breakup, followed by a year long destructive drunken stupor. It would seem that taking a responsible, grown up approach would be beneficial based on his past history.

This is true, although my previous relationship was 5 years in the making and I honestly don’t know what the ultimate demise was. It’s been almost 2 years since that breakup and I’ve made contact 3 times with her, none revealing the true reason why. Most certainly wasn’t a sports car showing up in the driveway. I honestly think she just moved on, she was engaged 6 months to her “best friend” and I’ve been told she cheated on me so I have just tried not to think about the whole ordeal and did her from my memory. That was one of the most painful experiences of my life and I’m fortunate to still be here. I don’t think I will ever let myself relive an experience like that though.



Since my previous relationship I have learned to love myself and others quite a bit more. My self esteem has greatly improved and that was my first love so I’m sure she will always be in my heart and I will forever have a bit of me missing from that relationship. I also quit drinking after that 9 month bender and have only had a handful of slip ups. I spend my time much more productively and am much more active.


The car won’t be home for quite some time but I spoke with her about it this morning over breakfast and it wasn’t too awful bad. I have a plan, it’s not affecting us financially at all, and after seeing the actual car she thought it looked better than what I showed her. We go on a lot of road trips to Indiana so it will be a fun toy.
In retrospect I should have just told her I was buying the car instead of tip toeing around the whole thing. But atleast she knows before it shows up

[Frosty]

Originally Posted by andromeda160

My buddy was telling me the optispark was a bit of an Achilles heel, he also told me it probably wasn’t worth fixing but he had a few friends he knew who would give me my money back, maybe a bit more lol. I do need to get on the vette forums, the purist in me wants to get the trans rebuilt, but I could have it on the road next weekend if I do a trans swap for now. What would you do in my shoes? Trans swap ~ $600 I keep my numbers matching core, or $1,400 to get it rebuilt and R&R’ed. Not sure how much someone would charge to rebuild. I do the work

The exterior and engine look like they are in good shape. If the interior is in good shape, you have options.The mags are not the original saw blades that came with the car originally.

When I originally got mine, all I wanted was a Corvette and to drive it. Then, after putting a lot of TLC into it, I wanted to show it off, so I went to car shows. The car did well and I got a Third in its class. When I learned the ropes I started getting firsts.

I learned about the NCRS, National Corvette Restorers Society, and that is where I went a little nuts. They judge a car on originality, as it was when it left the showroom.

It is a lot of fun meeting other owners and learning how to judge cars.

So, to answer your question, I would have it re-built for two reasons. They are pretty bullet proof and once it is fixed it should be fine for the rest of its life. Since, you are a purist, I think that would make you appreciate the car more.

Secondly, there might be someone in the future looking for a car to show. If you re-build the tranny, it will be numbers matching, and probably look more valuable to a new buyer. In my opinion, which is worth nothing, with the C8 coming out, I think there will be a slight bump to the C4's, and who knows where that will go.

That car looks pretty good and the price is right! I would re-build.

I would also go to Amazon and order, "101 Projects for Your Corvette 1984-1996" (Motorbooks Workshop). It is a great book and will get you started.

https://www.amazon.com/Projects-Corv.../dp/0760314616

Good luck and good hunting!

[James K]

Having spent 10 years on my life making a living repairing LT-1 powered vehicles I'd make sure there are NEW kevlar clutch packs in the tranny, rebuild or swapping out the unit. There's many different clutch packs from the 700R4 days that fit into the 4L60e but they can't hold up to the heat tolerances that the OEM kevlar packs in the 4L60e can. Have fun with that #8 spark plug, at least it's not as bad as it can be like the same year Camaros.

[DLRIDES]

Originally Posted by andromeda160

When you’re about to buy a car with your significant other? I came across a c4 corvette for a song as it needs a trans rebuild, but it’s too clean to pass up and it’s practically a giveaway. We have a 2 car driveway and when I asked for a sport bike a few months back the answer was no. I have a place to store it and I’m likely going to get rid of my first Rolex to pay for it. Already made arrangements to get it too. I would’ve told her before but everything happened so fast so I’m not too sure what to say now. Do I just tell her before I get it or ask for forgiveness? I really don’t want to end up living in this thing haha

IMO

Find a new GF ! This one will turn you into a subservient cuckold after marriage.

[SG56]

Yeeah, what many have said..

I would never forbid something my husband wants, because in the long run, he would not be happy and things would end.

When I told my ex 11 years ago that I'm buying a motorcycle, he said 'no you're not'.
I said, 'it wasn't a question.'

That's why he's an ex.

My husband had a major accident last year and decided to retire from racing.
He never asked me to retire with him, but I did. I did it out of love as I know he would have done for me too.

We are a team.

I also never told him to retire and he knows that if he wants to do it, I will not say no, no matter how bad the idea is. If that is what he wants, then so be it.

It's great that you bought the car.
Yes things should be talked about, (I don't go into details with watches lol) but ultimately, she should agree to things that make you happy.

On the other hand, you're 24. I'm almost twice your age. You have a lot of time to earn wisdom :)

Congratulations on the car!!

[GB-man]

Originally Posted by Abdullah71601

We do know that last year Greg took a similar approach to his then girlfriend, which ended up in a breakup, followed by a year long destructive drunken stupor. It would seem that taking a responsible, grown up approach would be beneficial based on his past history.

[woodsworth]

I never keep anything from my wife/SO. If you both truly believe in each other and want the best for the both of you, why would you have an issue sharing purchases with one another? Lol... I'm sorry if I am sounding judgmental but if this purchase will put your relationship or financial situation at risk, why on earth would you lie and jeopardize the things that really matter?

If you value inanimate objects more than your relationship/her feelings, then you should not be with her/she is not the right woman for you.

[Casey VP-26]

Good Looking Ride, Great Price!!! Good Luck from a C7 Guy.

[CLG23]

honestly, I don't ask "permission". As long as finances are in order and this purchase doesn't stop me from doing things for the household, I'm good. I believe that even within relationships people are still allowed to be individuals and do things that bring themselves happiness


...I'd buy the car, as long as money isn't the issue

[DLRIDES]

Originally Posted by SG56

When I told my ex 11 years ago that I'm buying a motorcycle, he said 'no you're not'.
I said, 'it wasn't a question.'

That's why he's an ex.

[tudorbaja27]

Originally Posted by DLRIDES

IMO

Find a new GF ! This one will turn you into a subservient cuckold after marriage.

Smart man.

[littleolemoi]

Originally Posted by andromeda160

When you’re about to buy a car with your significant other? I came across a c4 corvette for a song as it needs a trans rebuild, but it’s too clean to pass up and it’s practically a giveaway. We have a 2 car driveway and when I asked for a sport bike a few months back the answer was no. I have a place to store it and I’m likely going to get rid of my first Rolex to pay for it. Already made arrangements to get it too. I would’ve told her before but everything happened so fast so I’m not too sure what to say now. Do I just tell her before I get it or ask for forgiveness? I really don’t want to end up living in this thing haha

It's easier to ask for forgiveness than for permission wink wink!!

Go for it!!

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[East Bay Rider]

Glad you told her but really sorry that you had to rack your mind and feel all that guilt first.
That's no way to live.
It looks like a fun project but are you going to be made to feel guilty when you need to spend hours in the driveway and money repairing this dream? Is she jealously "missing you" while you're out tinkering on the new toy? (I had one like that in my youth - kept the car instead)
Those are the questions I'd ask myself when deciding whether or not to rebuild or replace the transmission and other, future projects.
In the end the car project is to be enjoyed and experienced. Learn all the lessons that it offers.
Have fun and good luck.

(PS - if you don't already have it, I'd suggest getting your motorcycle/license now for all the obvious reasons)

[andromeda160]

Little update, got lucky, threw new fluid in and a new trans line and everything seems to be working.


As for the girlfriend, we moved apart but are still dating lol Glad I didn’t pass on the car. And she seems to be pretty happy about it now.


As for her being jealous, I want to spend too much time with her she says lol I figured the car would be a good distraction. Oh well, off to the dream cruise

[Rentalcarman]

Originally Posted by Star Ferry

If you're married, then shared finances dictate that it should be a mutual decision.

If not married, you should still let her know about it, but you don't need her approval or permission

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
This. I strongly recommend against ever doing anything behind a spouses back. That is not what builds a strong marriage. Honesty, compromise, and communication is what does.


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[Widows Son]

The warden doesn't give me a hard time about anything. I've bought and sold six vehicles in the past few months. It was time to upgrade both our daily drivers. Sold both cars privately and bought her a GMC Acadia and me an Audi A6. She came home one day to her new car in the drive. Then I sold my 61 Beetle, and bought a 1969 Lincoln MK III. I don't recall a signed permission slip for any of these transactions.

[Headshrinker]

Every time I want to go look at a car, my wife always asks if it is an automatic in case she needs to borrow it. She also can’t understand why all the cars I like have such tiny rear seats and trunks that make it difficult to go shopping. Hint, hint...

[andromeda160]

Originally Posted by Headshrinker

Every time I want to go look at a car, my wife always asks if it is an automatic in case she needs to borrow it. She also can’t understand why all the cars I like have such tiny rear seats and trunks that make it difficult to go shopping. Hint, hint...

With the roof off, I can fit a few groceries in the trunk, ended up having some cooling problems yesterday, so I get to rip her open today to see what’s going on with that. It hasn’t officially overheated yet, but definitely gets too hot into town. Hopefully it I’ll be much better with my radiator cleaned. But probably time for some new hoses, a good coolant flush and an upgraded radiator.