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bodybump · 2 October 2011, 01:08 PM

Stay Strong MAtt Stay strong!!!

Boopie · 2 October 2011, 02:42 PM

My thoughts are with you both.

I know a few women who were on bed rest at home for months....I also have a friend who was on bedrest at the hospital. I have a couple of friends who have delivered twins, and it seems that twins are early more often than not.

My guess is that your wife and the babies will be fine, although you may want to mentally prepare yourself for an early delivery. When I was pregnant my doctor told me that 36 weeks is considered "done," just the babies gain weight and strength in the last month. Due date is week 40. So you said you have 16 weeks...I presume that is until the due date. So, maybe if you mentally shorten everything by 4 weeks that might help reduce the stress.

If things were really terrible then I would expect the doctor to admit your wife to the hospital. That wasn't done.

Good luck!

glimmer · 3 October 2011, 06:50 PM

Sending prayers and positive vibes to you, your wife and kids, that all will be well and done according to His Will...

JimSnyder · 3 October 2011, 08:10 PM

Things will be fine Matt. Our last two were twins, a boy and a girl. We went through the same thing. They are now freshman in High School and doing fine

rr-nyc · 3 October 2011, 09:10 PM

I hope everything works out!

My wife and i have ben trying for two years and going the IVF route soon

Passionata · 3 October 2011, 09:48 PM

no worry , it will be fine, ladies are stronger than men in certain situartions!

Mosco · 3 October 2011, 10:48 PM

Matt, saw you reply on other thread, but don't want to hi-jack it.

Glad she's as good as possible under the circumstances, she's lucky to have you by her side!

I know I said this before, but I'll say it again - your guys mental state is the very, very important. Relax relax relax! Assume and expect a likely positive outcome. It will be OK!

2th Dr · 4 October 2011, 01:15 AM

Your family has my prayers Matt! Absolutely!

Route 66 · 4 October 2011, 01:59 AM

Still praying and sending positive thoughts your way Matt.

I think with all the help you're giving her, she'll, or should I say they'll all be fine.

Braniff · 4 October 2011, 04:05 AM

Let nature take it's course and being bed ridden is not normal nor is is healthy on about 20 different levels. I don't believe what the Dr. is telling you is necessarily good for your soon to be born children. That said, my best wishes are with you and your family.

Dr's know nothing and often air to the side of legal liability more than anything. Sad but true. Tell your wife to be careful and listen to her body! We were told all sorts of Dr. Tales our children were born rock solid because my wife paid attention to what her body and rational mind were telling her. Just like 40 years ago breast feeding was horrible for new borns, right??

Welshwatchman · 4 October 2011, 04:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Braniff

Dr's know nothing and often air to the side of legal liability more than anything.

Well done for that pearl of wisdom.

The OP was merely looking for spiritual support from likeminded individuals and soothing words from the rest of us.

Puffy · 5 October 2011, 06:42 AM

good vibes from England Matt

chicfarmer1 · 5 October 2011, 06:51 AM

Trust your medical team, keep your thoughts positive, accept your friends' support. We're rooting for you all.

BH13GMT · 5 October 2011, 07:14 AM

My thoughts are with you and your wife and the little ones. You have experts monitoring the situation, you are in good hands. Lets all focus on the arrival of little fingers and toes and lets see some pics in 2 months.
And no taking the credit for the cooking if you buy take out

Lisa · 5 October 2011, 07:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BH13GMT

My thoughts are with you and your wife and the little ones. You have experts monitoring the situation, you are in good hands. Lets all focus on the arrival of little fingers and toes and lets see some pics in 2 months.
And no taking the credit for the cooking if you buy take out

Unless he gives her a foot massage with the time he saved by not cooking!

Matt, please keep us updated on your journey.

I forgot to mention earlier that my friend who was on bed rest for weeks and weeks with her twins was also an IVF patient. She told me that thinking of her baby girls kept her going.

matt4hand · 5 October 2011, 08:11 AM

Thanks again everyone! We are on day 4 and going strong. Only 1 fight so far.....lol
I'm holding up fine I just feel so bad for my wife laying there. In had to get out today for a few hours and run some errands. You start going crazy laying around!!

Tunacan26 · 5 October 2011, 08:28 AM

Prayers of course. PLUS, follow the docs orders. I know someone who just had a baby way early, barely wieghed a pound. It's up past 3 pounds now. They do great things now with babies in a little trouble. And, I hear you with the IUI's and IVF stuff too. My 6-year old came after multiple IUI's, and 2 IVF's. Follow the docs orders!!

mach330 · 5 October 2011, 08:30 AM

sending out some prayers to you and your family. i had problems with my first kid (probably last). she was hospital for the first 137 days of her last. it was truly the hardest thing my wife and i had to go thru. my daughter is finally home and doing great. you guys will be ok too. keep your spirits high . it will all be worth it in the end.

bahbahani · 5 October 2011, 09:05 AM

my prayers are with you and your family, stay strong everything will turn out great.

Dr.C · 12 October 2011, 06:04 AM

Matt, your family will have my prayers! Your wife and kids will turn out great and just remember females are tough!

rolio · 12 October 2011, 06:55 AM

Done!

metzger · 12 October 2011, 08:57 AM

Prayers sent! Hang in there!

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3 October 2011, 10:48 PM	#97
Mosco "TRF" Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Real Name: Greg Location: Cincinnati Watch: I like to... Posts: 18,567	Matt, saw you reply on other thread, but don't want to hi-jack it. Glad she's as good as possible under the circumstances, she's lucky to have you by her side! I know I said this before, but I'll say it again - your guys mental state is the very, very important. Relax relax relax! Assume and expect a likely positive outcome. It will be OK! __________________ Instagram - @CaliberSwiss *“A man who procrastinates in his choosing will inevitably have his choice made for him by circumstance.” - Hunter S. Thompson*

4 October 2011, 04:05 AM	#100
Braniff "TRF" Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Real Name: J Scott Location: Vancouver Watch: DRSD Posts: 8	best wishes Let nature take it's course and being bed ridden is not normal nor is is healthy on about 20 different levels. I don't believe what the Dr. is telling you is necessarily good for your soon to be born children. That said, my best wishes are with you and your family. Dr's know nothing and often air to the side of legal liability more than anything. Sad but true. Tell your wife to be careful and listen to her body! We were told all sorts of Dr. Tales our children were born rock solid because my wife paid attention to what her body and rational mind were telling her. Just like 40 years ago breast feeding was horrible for new borns, right??

2 October 2011, 02:42 PM	#92
Boopie "TRF" Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Beverly Hills, CA Watch: Yachtmaster Posts: 3,952	My thoughts are with you both. I know a few women who were on bed rest at home for months....I also have a friend who was on bedrest at the hospital. I have a couple of friends who have delivered twins, and it seems that twins are early more often than not. My guess is that your wife and the babies will be fine, although you may want to mentally prepare yourself for an early delivery. When I was pregnant my doctor told me that 36 weeks is considered "done," just the babies gain weight and strength in the last month. Due date is week 40. So you said you have 16 weeks...I presume that is until the due date. So, maybe if you mentally shorten everything by 4 weeks that might help reduce the stress. If things were really terrible then I would expect the doctor to admit your wife to the hospital. That wasn't done. Good luck!

3 October 2011, 06:50 PM	#93
glimmer Banned Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Here, everywhere Posts: 1,244	Sending prayers and positive vibes to you, your wife and kids, that all will be well and done according to His Will...

3 October 2011, 09:10 PM	#95
rr-nyc Liar & Ratbag Join Date: Nov 2009 Real Name: Renato Location: NYC / Miami Beach Watch: Rolex Daytona Posts: 5,344	I hope everything works out! My wife and i have ben trying for two years and going the IVF route soon

4 October 2011, 01:15 AM	#98
2th Dr Banned Join Date: Jan 2009 Real Name: Mark-O! Location: Arlington, TX Watch: Rolex Posts: 12,714	Your family has my prayers Matt! Absolutely!

4 October 2011, 01:59 AM	#99
Route 66 "TRF" Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Real Name: Steve Location: Burbank, CA Watch: 214270 Mark II Posts: 4,121	Still praying and sending positive thoughts your way Matt. I think with all the help you're giving her, she'll, or should I say they'll all be fine.

5 October 2011, 06:42 AM	#102
Puffy "TRF" Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Here and there Posts: 12,485	good vibes from England Matt __________________ Fine Quality is Long Remembered After the Pain of Spending Money is Forgotten

5 October 2011, 06:51 AM	#103
chicfarmer1 "TRF" Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Real Name: J Location: USA Midwest Watch: Midsize Datejust Posts: 2,611	Trust your medical team, keep your thoughts positive, accept your friends' support. We're rooting for you all.

5 October 2011, 07:14 AM	#104
BH13GMT "TRF" Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Real Name: Paul Location: UK, Dorset Watch: and learn Posts: 2,636	My thoughts are with you and your wife and the little ones. You have experts monitoring the situation, you are in good hands. Lets all focus on the arrival of little fingers and toes and lets see some pics in 2 months. And no taking the credit for the cooking if you buy take out __________________ Rolex Sub 1680, Rolex GMT 116710LN, Rolex Datejust 16220 Salmon Dial (the Mrs), Tudor BB58, Tudor Pelagos Blue and Several Seiko's ************************************************ *************** "last one in the chopper is a rotten egg" Jonathan Quayle Higgins III

5 October 2011, 08:11 AM	#106
matt4hand Banned Join Date: Jan 2011 Real Name: Matt Location: Atlanta Watch: Tramp Posts: 2,369	Thanks again everyone! We are on day 4 and going strong. Only 1 fight so far.....lol I'm holding up fine I just feel so bad for my wife laying there. In had to get out today for a few hours and run some errands. You start going crazy laying around!!

5 October 2011, 08:28 AM	#107
Tunacan26 Banned Join Date: Feb 2010 Real Name: Chuck Location: Florida Watch: Hulk, DJ, Bluesy Posts: 1,890	Prayers of course. PLUS, follow the docs orders. I know someone who just had a baby way early, barely wieghed a pound. It's up past 3 pounds now. They do great things now with babies in a little trouble. And, I hear you with the IUI's and IVF stuff too. My 6-year old came after multiple IUI's, and 2 IVF's. Follow the docs orders!!

5 October 2011, 08:30 AM	#108
mach330 "TRF" Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: The OC Watch: Daytona,GMT,PAM 90 Posts: 394	sending out some prayers to you and your family. i had problems with my first kid (probably last). she was hospital for the first 137 days of her last. it was truly the hardest thing my wife and i had to go thru. my daughter is finally home and doing great. you guys will be ok too. keep your spirits high . it will all be worth it in the end.

5 October 2011, 09:05 AM	#109
bahbahani "TRF" Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Real Name: Mohammed Location: Kuwait Watch: AP, Rolex ,Panerai Posts: 138	my prayers are with you and your family, stay strong everything will turn out great.

12 October 2011, 06:04 AM	#110
Dr.C "TRF" Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Real Name: C Location: New York Watch: Omega Speedy c.321 Posts: 12	Matt, your family will have my prayers! Your wife and kids will turn out great and just remember females are tough!

12 October 2011, 06:55 AM	#111
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12 October 2011, 08:57 AM	#112
metzger "TRF" Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 51	Prayers sent! Hang in there!

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