would you buy you 13 year old boy a rolex

[le_baroudeur]

No, no and no! Yes, he is intelligent, he is your beloved child... But he is only a kid! Be serious... For his majority if you want, not before.

[1bad750]

you are retarded if you buy your 13 yr old son a rolex

[tattooedfagin]

forget the watch & buy the kid a better education

[Lion]

As has been stated many times I would hold off buying him a Rolex at his age and wait and give him one when he graduates from high school!!!

[pawnshopkiller]

31mm Datejust Otherwise known as the 3/4 or junior sized Rolex.
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[Rags]

Absolutely NOT...There are plenty of nice watches out there for a young man but not a rolex.

[watch watcher]

I don't see why not. I know I would have been thrilled to have gotten one at 13.

[SoftwareDrone]

Originally Posted by bighaole

Why not get him a similar "look" watch, like an Invicta or some of the Seiko automatic models (whatever did happen to my Seiko Diver???) and see how he does with it. They're still very good timepieces, but not built to the same standards. If he can take good care of one of those, then you'll have less to worry about.

Great idea!

[Welshwatchman]

I'd spring to a $200 watch as I've done with both my children once they reached the 14-15 age.

One was lost in a month, no replacement forthcoming from me. The other is still in nice condition after years of careful ownership.

They can buy their own expensive watches once they've earned enough of their own.

[learningtofly]

What a great thread

Actually, my son's 13. I bought him a couple of cheap divers and a Casio digi, but he never uses them. By the time he's 18 I doubt many of his generation will use/need/want a watch so I'll be able to splash out on a new car instead!

Amazed at the contributions from some of the younger members... not sure whether I feel or but I doubt they care what I think anyway.

[tamba]

Nope. My dad had a Rolex and he told me, if I worked hard I too one day would own one. That is what you should tell your son. Get him a Toy Watch, inexpensive, plastic, cool and they look like a Rolex and they are water proof..Perfect!!

[The GMT Master]

As a relatively young Rolex owner myself (20), I would say that age isn't necessarily a barrier to owning one. Maturity and responsibility doesn't necessarily correspond directly with age - I don't think anyone here could question Kyle's passion for the brand, his knowledge, and the humility he pulls it off with. I know I wouldn't have been ready for a Rolex at age 13 - if I'm honest, I wonder how ready I really was when I got mine at 18. For me, when I was at the age in question, I was quite happy mucking about with my quartz Festina alarm chrono, and when that started playing up (no parts availability in the UK), I was gifted an Omega Seamaster Dynamic quartz, which I really cherished. Realistically, it wasn't worth that much, but that's not really the point - it was about learning to deal with looking after a decent watch, and enjoying wearing it at the same time. If I had been wearing a Rolex though, I think it probably would have made me even more of an insufferable little t*t than I already was at 13!

In any case, OP, you'll know when your son is ready to step up to the mark and take on that responsibility, but I would personally recommend a "lesser" watch to use for the time being, and wait to gift the Rolex at a significant milestone, whether that's age related or achievement related. For me, waiting for it to be an 18th birthday present means it has a sentimental value that far outstrips the material value, and I'm not going to be letting go of it in a hurry

Just my two cents,

Chris

[rolexertion]

Well, I might buy a 13-year-old Rolex if it were in good shape and all.

[L-16610]

hell no

He should work for it when he's older, than he will appreciate money and work !!!

[Rags]

Originally Posted by The GMT Master

As a relatively young Rolex owner myself (20), I would say that age isn't necessarily a barrier to owning one. Maturity and responsibility doesn't necessarily correspond directly with age - I don't think anyone here could question Kyle's passion for the brand, his knowledge, and the humility he pulls it off with. I know I wouldn't have been ready for a Rolex at age 13 - if I'm honest, I wonder how ready I really was when I got mine at 18. For me, when I was at the age in question, I was quite happy mucking about with my quartz Festina alarm chrono, and when that started playing up (no parts availability in the UK), I was gifted an Omega Seamaster Dynamic quartz, which I really cherished. Realistically, it wasn't worth that much, but that's not really the point - it was about learning to deal with looking after a decent watch, and enjoying wearing it at the same time. If I had been wearing a Rolex though, I think it probably would have made me even more of an insufferable little t*t than I already was at 13!

In any case, OP, you'll know when your son is ready to step up to the mark and take on that responsibility, but I would personally recommend a "lesser" watch to use for the time being, and wait to gift the Rolex at a significant milestone, whether that's age related or achievement related. For me, waiting for it to be an 18th birthday present means it has a sentimental value that far outstrips the material value, and I'm not going to be letting go of it in a hurry

Just my two cents,

Chris

Well said Chris..

[Tachymeter]

So after seven pages of comments we have not had much interaction from the OP. Be keen to hear their opinions now. It would also help remove doubt if this is a hoax posts or not.

[pawnshopkiller]

The OP wouldn't make a fake post.

[crowncollection]

Hi, and thanks for all the input on the matter fellow members of trf, i have been allowing others to make their comments, I am relatively new to the forum and did not know others expected me to reply. There have been many assumptions made about this topic eg. that i am talking about a brand new rolex for 10 grand, so lets clear some issues up. I was never talking about a new rolex. I was considiering a 2000 dollar used datejust in steel. I have taken the comments on board and thanks for the support from pawnshopkiller and others that support my decision to consider buying my son a rolex. I can afford it and am no fool, i will buy portable insurance for it, in case he loses it. My opinion is that children need to learn responsibility early, and how to take care of a prized possessions carefully. I will take on board the comments he should earn it, I have a big brick rendered fence that needs painting, that will take him a month of weekends to finish painting, so I will make him earn it, thanks for those who suggested this. Many have questioned my parenting skills, i did not appreciate those comments, others have commented that it will have an enduring effect on my sons Psyche. Well for those who do not know what i do, here's some insight, I am a psychiatrist and have a comprehensive understanding of the developmental needs and stages of psychological development of growing children. Furthermore, if i thought for a second this decision would be detrimental to my sons developing psyche, I would not even consider it. I make a considerable amount of money, my wife is also doctor, a GP partime, this will not break the bank. So that is my two cents. Regards

[kkwn98]

Originally Posted by crowncollection

Hi, and thanks for all the input on the matter fellow members of trf, i have been allowing others to make their comments, I am relatively new to the forum and did not know others expected me to reply. There have been many assumptions made about this topic eg. that i am talking about a brand new rolex for 10 grand, so lets clear some issues up. I was never talking about a new rolex. I was considiering a 2000 dollar used datejust in steel. I have taken the comments on board and thanks for the support from pawnshopkiller and others that support my decision to consider buying my son a rolex. I can afford it and am no fool, i will buy portable insurance for it, in case he loses it. My opinion is that children need to learn responsibility early, and how to take care of a prized possessions carefully. I will take on board the comments he should earn it, I have a big brick rendered fence that needs painting, that will take him a month of weekends to finish painting, so I will make him earn it, thanks for those who suggested this. Many have questioned my parenting skills, i did not appreciate those comments, others have commented that it will have an enduring effect on my sons Psyche. Well for those who do not know what i do, here's some insight, I am a psychiatrist and have a comprehensive understanding of the developmental needs and stages of psychological development of growing children. Furthermore, if i thought for a second this decision would be detrimental to my sons developing psyche, I would not even consider it. I make a considerable amount of money, my wife is also doctor, a GP partime, this will not break the bank. So that is my two cents. Regards

My two pence - Dude, do what you like. You say you're a pyschiatrist. You're wealthy. OK. You know your son. OK (and I should hope so). We don't know you from a bar of soap or what your socio-economic circumstances are (until now).

So you don't appreciate those who questioned your parenting skills. Fair enough. But, as a psychiatrist and one who presumably understands how people tend to think and how people can jump to conclusions and be judgmental, surely you wouldn't have expected anything less?

In short - why on earth do you need the opinions of anonymous strangers posting on an internet forum? You already know what you're going to do.

[crowncollection]

Hi, I just wanted to know what other people thought of the idea in general, as my wife does not particuarly like the idea. however, I did not expect some of the comments regarding my parenting skills from members, I can honestly say. As I said, I am relatively new to this forum. I just wanted to know if other fathers had bought their son's rolexes at this age or if my thoughts were vastly different to other fathers with the means. I do appreciate the comments and have taken justified comments, like "make him earn it" on board. Thanks members, this thread certainly has created some discussion and i am appreciative to all regardless if i agree with your comments or not. Regards

[Fiery]

Nope, never. My reasons:

1) The boy obviously needs a beater watch, with quartz movement. It's absolutely normal for kids that they don't baby their possessions.

2) (With a few exceptions) I don't think kids understand the real value behind such expensive items. Until they can learn the real value of the dollar, I think it makes no sense to provide them with luxury items like a Rolex.

3) I'd prefer to let my kid grow up, establish himself, learn the value of various things in life, and earn his money to buy himself whatever luxury products he picks. It will be easier that way for both of us, because this way he can learn to appreciate the value of those items.

4) But if I ever make exceptions from "rule #3", it would be a very special occasion, most likely graduation. Rewarding a special watch or jewellery to recognize an accomplishment is a good thing afterall.

[Gerardus]

Buy an older DJ for him.

[bayerische]

Well it's your kid, so I think only you can decide.

I got a Camel Trophy watch when I was thirteen. Probably had the nicest and most expensive watch in my school. Just to bare in mind if you get him a Rolex.

[Andad]

Originally Posted by crowncollection

Hi, and thanks for all the input on the matter fellow members of trf, i have been allowing others to make their comments, I am relatively new to the forum and did not know others expected me to reply. There have been many assumptions made about this topic eg. that i am talking about a brand new rolex for 10 grand, so lets clear some issues up. I was never talking about a new rolex. I was considiering a 2000 dollar used datejust in steel. I have taken the comments on board and thanks for the support from pawnshopkiller and others that support my decision to consider buying my son a rolex. I can afford it and am no fool, i will buy portable insurance for it, in case he loses it. My opinion is that children need to learn responsibility early, and how to take care of a prized possessions carefully. I will take on board the comments he should earn it, I have a big brick rendered fence that needs painting, that will take him a month of weekends to finish painting, so I will make him earn it, thanks for those who suggested this. Many have questioned my parenting skills, i did not appreciate those comments, others have commented that it will have an enduring effect on my sons Psyche. Well for those who do not know what i do, here's some insight, I am a psychiatrist and have a comprehensive understanding of the developmental needs and stages of psychological development of growing children. Furthermore, if i thought for a second this decision would be detrimental to my sons developing psyche, I would not even consider it. I make a considerable amount of money, my wife is also doctor, a GP partime, this will not break the bank. So that is my two cents. Regards

This explains everything IMO.

Cheapskate.

[globalmedia33]

Why not? If you are rich enough to pend that kind of money.

[Roja]

You know, I read all the comments and commented myself a couple of times, but in retrospect, I realized that I bought (with the help of my father) an old VW Beetle when I was 13. Clearly, I couldn't drive. I just LOVED and dreamt of having one. I also, again with the help of my parents (who weren't rich or well-off at the time), ended up buying myself an RC car, that I modified the snot out of. I lived in Australia and did a milk run every day to earn the money, but regardless, I realized now that I too had extravagant toys/possessions at that age.
I guess I'm admitting my hypocrisy at first glance.

If he earns it, he'll attach a value to it and then it's out of your hands what he does with it, and really, the responsibility will be on him.

The one question I have for the OP is: does HE really want it or do YOU want it for him?

That might change the psycho-evaluative dynamic, wouldn't you agree?

[derekloimer]

As long as your first name is Sheik I can see no problem with buying a 13 old a Rolex. A Ferrari is also a good first car

[Rock]

I have enjoyed this thread. I'm not a psychiatrist, but I don't need to be because I don't really care what others would do in this situation. I tend to rely on my own judgement. Recent generations are some of the most self obsessed individuals I have ever met. Let's spoil the coming generations rotten, it will make for some interesting dynamics when we want them to wipe the drool from our chins in the old peoples home.

[Puffy]

i would but i'd wear it myself until he turns 25

[pawnshopkiller]

This forum can be supportive at times but it's full of pricks that will cross the line......