How do you convince your significant other?

[samsam]

This is not a very serious question.

I am guessing most people here can afford an expensive watch (or more), but I find it difficult every time I am planning a new watch-hunt to convince my wife that I want to buy another watch (although we can afford it and she knows that I really love watches.)

I am wondering, how do you guys deal with this issues without sleeping on the sofa for a week after every new purchase??

[fastmd]

I'm very lucky that my wife does not care, as long as I don't object to her shoes or designer bags.

I have more of an issue with some of my close friends who don't understand why I need so many rolex's and other watches.

[samsam]

Originally Posted by fastmd

I'm very lucky that my wife does not care, as long as I don't object to her shoes or designer bags.

I have more of an issue with some of my close friends who don't understand why I need so many rolex's and other watches.

Hahaha.. My wife is not much of a shopper herself. She would buy a bag or a couple of shoes every now and then. She likes her older stuff and wears em often.

My friends don't care much about what I wear. Once a friend asked me about my watch and he almost got a heart attach knowing it costs more than 3 grands. Of course, I didn't mention it is more than 9K

[NGB185]

Originally Posted by SamSam

Hahaha.. My wife is not much of a shopper herself. She would buy a bag or a couple of shoes every now and then. She likes her older stuff and wears em often.

My friends don't care much about what I wear. Once a friend asked me about my watch and he almost got a heart attach knowing it costs more than 3 grands. Of course, I didn't mention it is more than 9K

Try telling your friend it's over $34k retail...but do it in person...the reaction is priceless

[koc]

Originally Posted by fastmd

I'm very lucky that my wife does not care, as long as I don't object to her shoes or designer bags.

I have more of an issue with some of my close friends who don't understand why I need so many rolex's and other watches.

Same thing here

[Kiddodoc]

Originally Posted by fastmd

I'm very lucky that my wife does not care, as long as I don't object to her shoes or designer bags.

I have more of an issue with some of my close friends who don't understand why I need so many rolex's and other watches.

Same here!

[Chris B]

As a single guy , I really love these threads

[CKL1213]

buy her something nice and justify the money was extra and will not affect bringing foods to the table

[cop414]

True story, years ago when first dating my GF we were in a store, can't remember where. I had picked up some silly item and she took it out of the cart and put it back on the shelf and told me that I didn't need it. I put it back in and said to her on the spot that I work very, very hard for my money. I don't tell you how to spend yours. If you try to tell me how to spend mine we're going to have relationship problems. If I'm buying a 10,000 dollar watch and my bills aren't being paid then by all means speak up, but otherwise butt out. Seems kind of harsh but I wasn't about to start a relationship with her hands on my purchases. Haven't had any problem since. I guess that if you nip it in the bud you don't have problems later.
I do say though that it works both ways. I don't ever try to tell her how to spend her moner either. She buys some things that I just shake my head at, but hey, it's her well earned cash she can do what she wants with it. YMMV

[Daytona-Dan]

Originally Posted by cop414

True story, years ago when first dating my GF we were in a store, can't remember where. I had picked up some silly item and she took it out of the cart and put it back on the shelf and told me that I didn't need it. I put it back in and said to her on the spot that I work very, very hard for my money. I don't tell you how to spend yours. If you try to tell me how to spend mine we're going to have relationship problems. If I'm buying a 10,000 dollar watch and my bills aren't being paid then by all means speak up, but otherwise butt out. Seems kind of harsh but I wasn't about to start a relationship with her hands on my purchases. Haven't had any problem since. I guess that if you nip it in the bud you don't have problems later.
I do say though that it works both ways. I don't ever try to tell her how to spend her moner either. She buys some things that I just shake my head at, but hey, it's her well earned cash she can do what she wants with it. YMMV

My wife and I don't have the "my money, your money" process. Whenever something comes up with a high price tag, we usually discuss it right there and then but it's a conversation about the actual item and if it's worth what they are asking for it, and not about who's paying. We have never referred to either pocket as the one paying no matter who earns what.

When it came to getting my YG Daytona recently, I had reservations about the price but she was the one who insisted and said go for it. It's the most expensive item we've spent money on besides cars and houses. I definitely have a keeper!

[c.rod]

Originally Posted by Daytona-Dan

My wife and I don't have the "my money, your money" process. Whenever something comes up with a high price tag, we usually discuss it right there and then but it's a conversation about the actual item and if it's worth what they are asking for it, and not about who's paying. We have never referred to either pocket as the one paying no matter who earns what.

When it came to getting my YG Daytona recently, I had reservations about the price but she was the one who insisted and said go for it. It's the most expensive item we've spent money on besides cars and houses. I definitely have a keeper!

Same here. I find we have far less fights about money than a lot of our friends when it's all combined into "our money". It's funny to me when I hear married people complaining its the other persons turn to pay etc...

[mrhy]

She is glad to see me so enthusiastic about something ,I just gave her one of my watches and she loves it

[superdog]

Originally Posted by cop414

True story, years ago when first dating my GF we were in a store, can't remember where. I had picked up some silly item and she took it out of the cart and put it back on the shelf and told me that I didn't need it. I put it back in and said to her on the spot that I work very, very hard for my money. I don't tell you how to spend yours. If you try to tell me how to spend mine we're going to have relationship problems. If I'm buying a 10,000 dollar watch and my bills aren't being paid then by all means speak up, but otherwise butt out. Seems kind of harsh but I wasn't about to start a relationship with her hands on my purchases. Haven't had any problem since. I guess that if you nip it in the bud you don't have problems later.
I do say though that it works both ways. I don't ever try to tell her how to spend her moner either. She buys some things that I just shake my head at, but hey, it's her well earned cash she can do what she wants with it. YMMV

Love this answer.

I tend to not really ask for anything in life.

Don't misunderstand, I'm always polite, but I typically do what I want how I want.

Then again, 39 and single.

[SUBversive]

Originally Posted by cop414

True story, years ago when first dating my GF we were in a store, can't remember where. I had picked up some silly item and she took it out of the cart and put it back on the shelf and told me that I didn't need it. I put it back in and said to her on the spot that I work very, very hard for my money. I don't tell you how to spend yours. If you try to tell me how to spend mine we're going to have relationship problems. If I'm buying a 10,000 dollar watch and my bills aren't being paid then by all means speak up, but otherwise butt out. Seems kind of harsh but I wasn't about to start a relationship with her hands on my purchases. Haven't had any problem since. I guess that if you nip it in the bud you don't have problems later.
I do say though that it works both ways. I don't ever try to tell her how to spend her moner either. She buys some things that I just shake my head at, but hey, it's her well earned cash she can do what she wants with it. YMMV

I thought you mentioned that you were divorced?

[samsmart]

Originally Posted by SUBversive

I thought you mentioned that you were divorced?

Maybe the girl friend is why he got divorced. Makes perfect since!

[cop414]

Originally Posted by SUBversive

I thought you mentioned that you were divorced?

Ri, that is correct. This conversation was with my girlfriend and it's a conversation that would have never happened with my ex wife when we were married.
Divorce taught me many things about myself as well as relationships. Sounds kind of selfish but I learned that the first person you have to look out for is yourself. Take care of yourself and then you are able to take care of the loved ones around you.
I've been known to say about my divorce... it's the worst thing that ever happened to me but it was the best thing that ever happened to me. Those who have been through it will understand.

[MonBK]

Originally Posted by cop414

Ri, that is correct. This conversation was with my girlfriend and it's a conversation that would have never happened with my ex wife when we were married.
Divorce taught me many things about myself as well as relationships. Sounds kind of selfish but I learned that the first person you have to look out for is yourself. Take care of yourself and then you are able to take care of the loved ones around you.
I've been known to say about my divorce... it's the worst thing that ever happened to me but it was the best thing that ever happened to me. Those who have been through it will understand.

I guess you know why divorces are so expensive......................................... .................................................. ....because they are worth it.

[ronmiller65]

Originally Posted by cop414

True story, years ago when first dating my GF we were in a store, can't remember where. I had picked up some silly item and she took it out of the cart and put it back on the shelf and told me that I didn't need it. I put it back in and said to her on the spot that I work very, very hard for my money. I don't tell you how to spend yours. If you try to tell me how to spend mine we're going to have relationship problems. If I'm buying a 10,000 dollar watch and my bills aren't being paid then by all means speak up, but otherwise butt out. Seems kind of harsh but I wasn't about to start a relationship with her hands on my purchases. Haven't had any problem since. I guess that if you nip it in the bud you don't have problems later.
I do say though that it works both ways. I don't ever try to tell her how to spend her moner either. She buys some things that I just shake my head at, but hey, it's her well earned cash she can do what she wants with it. YMMV

Well said Tim. That exact conversation may happen in two weeks when I pick up my new DJII. She was ok with my first sub four years ago, but this next one..... who knows?

[bigwatchman]

Usually a watch or nice diamond earrings seem to do the trick...

[Swift_Movement]

Bought mine (atleast my first) before I'm with anyone. Ironically to this thread it will help me get with one now.

[Jake B]

[Dan Pierce]

Marry someone who wants to see you follow your passions in life as you would them.
dP

[Jake B]

Originally Posted by Dan Pierce

Marry someone who wants to see you follow your passions in life as you would them.
dP

That's a danged good answer, Mr. Pierce

When I met my wife, she was working in a watch dials company where we were placing orders, so she knew what she was getting into since day one

[ecsub44]

Originally Posted by Dan Pierce

Marry someone who wants to see you follow your passions in life as you would them.
dP

+1

I find these threads perplexing.

[LightOnAHill]

Originally Posted by ecsub44

+1

I find these threads perplexing.

Perplexing and worrying as well.

[Billywiz]

Originally Posted by LightOnAHill

Perplexing and worrying as well.

Oh really...most of us just find it fun...things get a bit dull without a bit of fun I find

[mjclark32]

Originally Posted by Dan Pierce

Marry someone who wants to see you follow your passions in life as you would them.
dP

Right on, as usual

[xjeeunitx]

Originally Posted by Dan Pierce

Marry someone who wants to see you follow your passions in life as you would them.
dP

Well said!

[threemonkeys]

Originally Posted by Dan Pierce

Marry someone who wants to see you follow your passions in life as you would them.
dP

This. It needs to go both ways.

[c.rod]

Sometimes I might have to tell a little white lie about how much I actually paid for it....:) I got real lucky. Sort of. She is not a big spender on anything, so we just have to worry about me...lmao