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Old 15 November 2017, 02:31 PM   #1
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Seventy Years

I've been meditating today on the fact that it was my parents anniversary. They are both deceased and I miss them both. I'd have loved to have them around later in my life then they were. It struck me just a few minutes ago while at work that it would have been their 70th wedding anniversary this past day. I know this for certain because I'm wearing my father's wedding band which was bought at Tiffany's in 1947. I was married about two and a half years after my father's death.

At any rate I thought I'd share a photo of the simple 70 year old wedding band and part of the engraving inside. My anniversary is also engraved inside as well. Some don't like mixing gold wedding rings with other than gold watches. For me having the band my father wore through the marriage that was only ended by his death transcends any other concerns. Perhaps it is part of the reason I'm still married after 32 years.


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Old 15 November 2017, 02:53 PM   #2
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Lee, you are lucky to have your fathers wedding ring. I totally agree with you regarding having parents around in our later years. I wish mine were around as well, but they passed in their mid-60s.

Wear your wedding ring proudly. Thanks for sharing the story and beautiful watch as well.
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Old 15 November 2017, 02:53 PM   #3
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Old 15 November 2017, 03:01 PM   #4
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Lee, you are lucky to have your fathers wedding ring. I totally agree with you regarding having parents around in our later years. I wish mine were around as well, but they passed in their mid-60s.

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Thanks for reading and sharing in my reminiscence.
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Old 15 November 2017, 03:03 PM   #5
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The unfortunate cycle/circle of life. It's nice to see them live on through your memories and nostalgia. I'll drink to that tonight.
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Old 15 November 2017, 07:49 PM   #6
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Keep remembering the good moments

I can't imagine what it is like to lose my parents, but I know the day will come.
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That's really quite nice that you wear the same wedding band as your dad that's a great tribute to him Lee
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They are smiling down on you today as always Lee. Thank you for sharing this.
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Old 15 November 2017, 09:38 PM   #9
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Great story Lee! Love it! I for one actually like the look of the different metal colors together. Each tell a story and for you that story is very precious!
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Old 15 November 2017, 09:40 PM   #10
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There's a profound connection between children and parents. Thanks for sharing Lee
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Old 15 November 2017, 09:48 PM   #12
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My parents are coming up on their 60th anniversary. They are in their 80's and are downsizing in preparation to move into smaller digs. I've asked for the Stickley furniture, but I've never thought about dad's ring when he passes. I'm going to guess that he'll take it with him.
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Old 15 November 2017, 09:51 PM   #13
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Old 15 November 2017, 11:00 PM   #14
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Beautiful story, Lee! Wear it with pride!
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Old 16 November 2017, 05:05 AM   #16
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My parents are coming up on their 60th anniversary. They are in their 80's and are downsizing in preparation to move into smaller digs. I've asked for the Stickley furniture, but I've never thought about dad's ring when he passes. I'm going to guess that he'll take it with him.
From what I understand there can be theft from funeral parlors. I think many hold onto their parent's jewelry.

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Beautiful story, Lee! Wear it with pride!
Thanks, all. 70 years is a long time ago, even before I was born.
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Old 16 November 2017, 07:03 AM   #17
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Beautiful ring. Beautiful thoughts and feelings. Thanks for sharing.
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Old 16 November 2017, 07:30 AM   #18
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Thanks for sharing such a beautiful story
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Old 16 November 2017, 07:59 AM   #19
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Lost my father earlier this year. I wear his wedding ring, not the one he had when my parents were married in 1949, but a ring that he had made about 20 years ago and wore as a wedding ring. It has a diamond that his grandfather had when he came to the US in the early 1900's.
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Lovely ring lee. Great to have that with you at all times.
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Old 16 November 2017, 08:46 AM   #21
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What a beautiful story Lee ! Thanks for sharing.
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Old 16 November 2017, 09:20 AM   #22
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Wow Lee, that is touching and the loss of your parents resonates with me as my father passed away just six weeks ago. What an incredibly difficult adjustment for my family right now. That wedding ring is just the right thing to have. Thanks for sharing Lee


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Old 16 November 2017, 11:51 AM   #23
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Your parents would certainly be proud of you Lee. A very touching post and thank you for sharing it.
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Old 16 November 2017, 01:26 PM   #24
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Thanks for sharing that story with us, Lee. It's nice that you've got this as a reminder and I see no problem wearing that ring with the watch
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Old 16 November 2017, 02:40 PM   #25
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How awesome that you have his ring! Wonderful story!
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Old 16 November 2017, 03:49 PM   #26
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Your parents would certainly be proud of you Lee. A very touching post and thank you for sharing it.
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How awesome that you have his ring! Wonderful story!
Thank you all for appreciating my 70th anniversary post for my parents. When I was given it by my mother, prior to my wedding, it meant a lot to her even to the point of making me go into Tiffany's with her to get it sized. Perhaps for her it brought back some memories of when it was first bought. Too late to ask her now.
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What a great story, thanks for sharing. What an honor to be able to wear your father's wedding ring as your own. A constant reminder of a life well lived.
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