Inherited my dad's watch

[Rolex.c6]

Condolances on your father. I also lost my father 7 months ago, I have his watch standing on my nightstand but that's a € 99,- watch so no family fights over that luckily
Now I know it's probably the usual thing to say, keep the watch, don't change it, wear it.
Uhm..., I don't want to sound disrespectful, but to be honest I would not wear that particular watch myself, it is a very outspoken model and I understand your doubt.
Ofcourse it's a awkward situation with his loss being so recent and your family watching close what you're gonna do with the watch. My advice would be keep it for a year or two, don't wear it if you're not comfortable wearing it. After that sell it, get yourself the watch you really really love and wear that everyday till you are old. That watch will give you the feeling your father had with his watch. Get your mother a nice piece of jewlery from the money off the watch so she will have something to carry or wear that reminds her of the watch your father loved so much.

[Vanmarsenille]

Originally Posted by Tony-GB

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Not really sure what you meant by posting this, but it is in.........piss poor taste.

[Vanmarsenille]

To the OP: I'm sorry about your Dad. It's such a difficult time. My Dad died almost three years ago, and I inherited his Patek Philippe Calatrava, which although not really my style, I have kept and worn. I would suggest to you that you do the same. It might not be what you want to do right now, but you will regret it later, as others have said.

PS: please ignore people like the guy who posted the picture of the couple laughing and eating popcorn. This doesn't represent the vast majority of posters on this forum, in my experience.

[ryanwatchcollection]

Sorry for your loss. I hope you keep the watch for your lifetime in memory of your dad.

[august1410]

I understand if the watch is not your style. A lot of the watches we used to consider stylish at one time are not so much these days. I wear a 1983 Rolex 15003 that is not to everyone's liking. It's an "old man watch", I have been told.

Enough about my watch. Yours is quite special for the sole reason of how you acquired it. Anyone can buy a watch. Yours was gifted in a very special way.

Enjoy what the watch means even if you don't enjoy wearing it.

[Greenwich Mean Time]

Roliekid, my condolences to you and your family. If I were in your position, I'd keep the watch as it was when your father wore it. I'd have it serviced at the RSC. The watch you get back will be just like new. Enjoy the watch and wear it to honor your father and his memory.

[ostatedchi]

My condolences on the passing of your father. Please don't alter or let the watch out of your family.

I recently purchased my first Rolex after the birth of my grand-son. I intend for it to be his when I die. I'd hate to think that the first thing he did was sell it or bastardize it. I got to have my grandfather's pocket knife when he died. I was only a little kid. But I still love that item.

There's something about wearing a watch with history that makes you connected to something greater than yourself. Honor your father and cherish the watch as he did.

Edited to add: If you want to have it serviced, I think that's totally fine. Your father would appreciate it being in top working order. Just be careful, the service doesn't generally give you the old, replaced parts back. You may want them.

[ostatedchi]

Probably closer to this model: Oyster Quartz 19048

[RolieKid]

Thank you all for the condolences and support. I know I am just a stranger, but it does mean a lot. So again, thank you. I am going to have RSC NY do what needs to be done. Ironically, I received a new promo from Citibank that they will give me zero percent interest for 2 years. I figured I can repair the watch in mint working order and pay it over time w/o have to stretch the bank.

I will keep the watch, just do not know where or when I'd be wearing it. I do not wear jewelry, but in my industry many co-workers and executives have these types of watches. Not sure how that would look if I have a watch on which is flasher than theirs. My father liked yellow gold and he worked hard as a teacher for 20 years to build him and support his family. After that he started his own successful business, and that is when he decided on the watch I am told. I do think changing the bezel and dial to just a normal non-diamond version would be better. I know diamonds on watches were big in the 80's and 90's (era of excess), but not too much so now for men. I do not think my father would mind that and I did run it by my mom, she didn't have any issues with it either. Again, I am not a flamboyant person. I am very low key and stick to basics for the most part. I dress well, but nothing flashy. There are some of my co-workers who are flashy people and have the personality to match. They can prob. pull off a solid yellow gold watch with all the bling. If it were white gold I wouldn't change a thing as it wouldn't stick out as much.

Please note, I am extremely appreciative for receiving this amazing watch. It's just not my personality. I do not really go to high end places or events that much.

[RolieKid]

Originally Posted by ostatedchi

Probably closer to this model: Oyster Quartz 19048

Seems very similar. I looked at some old pictures, but you cannot see the dial. I will post some pics from Rolex when it comes back. I would hope it would not take more than a month or two. Would the receipt from Rolex show the model #?

[RolieKid]

Originally Posted by august1410

I understand if the watch is not your style. A lot of the watches we used to consider stylish at one time are not so much these days. I wear a 1983 Rolex 15003 that is not to everyone's liking. It's an "old man watch", I have been told.

Enough about my watch. Yours is quite special for the sole reason of how you acquired it. Anyone can buy a watch. Yours was gifted in a very special way.

Enjoy what the watch means even if you don't enjoy wearing it.

My brother has a similar watch like that. It really looks nice in person.

[RolieKid]

Originally Posted by Vanmarsenille

To the OP: I'm sorry about your Dad. It's such a difficult time. My Dad died almost three years ago, and I inherited his Patek Philippe Calatrava, which although not really my style, I have kept and worn. I would suggest to you that you do the same. It might not be what you want to do right now, but you will regret it later, as others have said.

PS: please ignore people like the guy who posted the picture of the couple laughing and eating popcorn. This doesn't represent the vast majority of posters on this forum, in my experience.

It's okay. I know some forums have some hazing from here and there. :)

[RolieKid]

Originally Posted by Widows Son

I'm sorry for your loss, no way to prepare for losing a family member. Sorry some jumped on you about the battery issue, as you learn more about Rolex, you'll discover that quartz (battery) Rolex's make up a small portion of them, most are automatic and the older models are manual wind only. I didn't jump to conclusions immediately about the battery question because you stated that the AD said something about corrosion, I've seen batteries malfunction in other brands and cause interior corrosion and damage the movement. Sort out the service costs and keep it, I have two watches from my deceased father that will NEVER be sold or altered.

I always thought Rolexes were automatic and didn't have a battery, so I was shocked when they called and told me. I just hope the corrosion isn't that bad. Would you know how often I'll have to send this watch in to be serviced because of the battery and internal mechanisms? I am just concerned about the upkeep. If I have to pay 2k every few years, I am not sure if I can afford that type of expense.

[RolieKid]

Originally Posted by Rolex.c6

Condolances on your father. I also lost my father 7 months ago, I have his watch standing on my nightstand but that's a € 99,- watch so no family fights over that luckily
Now I know it's probably the usual thing to say, keep the watch, don't change it, wear it.
Uhm..., I don't want to sound disrespectful, but to be honest I would not wear that particular watch myself, it is a very outspoken model and I understand your doubt.
Ofcourse it's a awkward situation with his loss being so recent and your family watching close what you're gonna do with the watch. My advice would be keep it for a year or two, don't wear it if you're not comfortable wearing it. After that sell it, get yourself the watch you really really love and wear that everyday till you are old. That watch will give you the feeling your father had with his watch. Get your mother a nice piece of jewlery from the money off the watch so she will have something to carry or wear that reminds her of the watch your father loved so much.

It's certainly an eye grabbing watch. Just trying to figure out how to incorporate it into my life. I'd be too worried to wear it out to social events.

[RolieKid]

Originally Posted by Lt Virgil Hilts

Condolences, of course.
But,....
"he wanted to give it to me after he passed"....just think about that for a while.
I don't know what age you are, but if you alter, exchange or just sell it, in years to come, you'll wake up in the dead of night, in a cold sweat, screaming; "my Dads watch!........What have I done!!?"
If you loved your Dad, keep the watch and treasure it, then maybe, pass it on
to any future grandson/grand daughter.

Your Dad would probably like that.

Agreed.

[RolieKid]

Originally Posted by Bxtek

Sorry for your loss. If I were you, I would have the watch serviced and just enjoy it! If being so "blingy" is not your style, I would probably have the bezel and dial changed but make sure you keep the originals. This watch was a huge part of your Dad's life and obviously meant a lot to him. He wanted you to have it after he passed, so I personally would never trade it in on another piece. If you do, I think you will regret it in the future!

If you really want a SS or WG Daytona, I would save and just buy one outright. Put away your Dad's DD in the safe or give it to your Mom to hold. Or, maybe you'd consider giving it to one of your siblings? No matter what, I think it should definitely stay in the family.

Would you or anyone else know how much Rolex, estimated of course, they would charge just for a regular bezel and black face? I think that would make the watch less ostentatious and flashy.

Yea, I've always wanted a Daytona, but in reality, not sure if I'd spend a car to buy one. I can dream though.

[Andad]

Originally Posted by RolieKid

Agreed.

[AK797]

Originally Posted by RolieKid

Thank you all for the condolences and support. I know I am just a stranger, but it does mean a lot. So again, thank you. I am going to have RSC NY do what needs to be done. Ironically, I received a new promo from Citibank that they will give me zero percent interest for 2 years. I figured I can repair the watch in mint working order and pay it over time w/o have to stretch the bank.

I will keep the watch, just do not know where or when I'd be wearing it. I do not wear jewelry, but in my industry many co-workers and executives have these types of watches. Not sure how that would look if I have a watch on which is flasher than theirs. My father liked yellow gold and he worked hard as a teacher for 20 years to build him and support his family. After that he started his own successful business, and that is when he decided on the watch I am told. I do think changing the bezel and dial to just a normal non-diamond version would be better. I know diamonds on watches were big in the 80's and 90's (era of excess), but not too much so now for men. I do not think my father would mind that and I did run it by my mom, she didn't have any issues with it either. Again, I am not a flamboyant person. I am very low key and stick to basics for the most part. I dress well, but nothing flashy. There are some of my co-workers who are flashy people and have the personality to match. They can prob. pull off a solid yellow gold watch with all the bling. If it were white gold I wouldn't change a thing as it wouldn't stick out as much.

Please note, I am extremely appreciative for receiving this amazing watch. It's just not my personality. I do not really go to high end places or events that much.

As this watch is quite old it makes sense that this was an inherited gift and you can tell people that, esp if you didn't really wear expensive watches before and you haven't had a massive promotion.

And I have many gold pieces and often wear them with a T-shirt down to the shops as do most members here so they are not for special occasions only, they can be worn whenever you want, there are no rules... trust us, we make the Rolex rules.

[Why1504]

Originally Posted by RolieKid

Thank you all for the condolences and support. I know I am just a stranger, but it does mean a lot. So again, thank you. I am going to have RSC NY do what needs to be done. Ironically, I received a new promo from Citibank that they will give me zero percent interest for 2 years. I figured I can repair the watch in mint working order and pay it over time w/o have to stretch the bank.

I will keep the watch, just do not know where or when I'd be wearing it. I do not wear jewelry, but in my industry many co-workers and executives have these types of watches. Not sure how that would look if I have a watch on which is flasher than theirs. My father liked yellow gold and he worked hard as a teacher for 20 years to build him and support his family. After that he started his own successful business, and that is when he decided on the watch I am told. I do think changing the bezel and dial to just a normal non-diamond version would be better. I know diamonds on watches were big in the 80's and 90's (era of excess), but not too much so now for men. I do not think my father would mind that and I did run it by my mom, she didn't have any issues with it either. Again, I am not a flamboyant person. I am very low key and stick to basics for the most part. I dress well, but nothing flashy. There are some of my co-workers who are flashy people and have the personality to match. They can prob. pull off a solid yellow gold watch with all the bling. If it were white gold I wouldn't change a thing as it wouldn't stick out as much.

Please note, I am extremely appreciative for receiving this amazing watch. It's just not my personality. I do not really go to high end places or events that much.

Wear it with pride. If you see someone looking at it tell them your story. The story makes the watch great. Once the story gets out when you dont wear it people will ask where is that great watch.

[ratlover]

I would recommend against putting ANYTHING on a credit card you cant afford to pay then and there for regardless what the interest rate is and your plans on paying it off. Been there done that and wish I wouldnt have. Trust me.

If you cant swing full service now have someone yank the battery outa and store it it if its in unwearable shape or put a new battery in it wear it on special occasions.

Your tastes may change as you get older. And having a special occasion/lucky watch with history would be something. Something with a story that you can pass on to your kids.

No rush to do anything other than maybe yanking the battery out.

Small hideable safes are cheap. Can bolt em down as well. They will slow down a theif at least

[BigBoy17]

Originally Posted by ratlover

i would recommend against putting anything on a credit card you cant afford to pay then and there for regardless what the interest rate is and your plans on paying it off. Been there done that and wish i wouldnt have. Trust me.

If you cant swing full service now have someone yank the battery outa and store it it if its in unwearable shape or put a new battery in it wear it on special occasions.

Your tastes may change as you get older. And having a special occasion/lucky watch with history would be something. Something with a story that you can pass on to your kids.

No rush to do anything other than maybe yanking the battery out.

Small hideable safes are cheap. Can bolt em down as well. They will slow down a theif at least

x2

[Widows Son]

Originally Posted by RolieKid

I always thought Rolexes were automatic and didn't have a battery, so I was shocked when they called and told me. I just hope the corrosion isn't that bad. Would you know how often I'll have to send this watch in to be serviced because of the battery and internal mechanisms? I am just concerned about the upkeep. If I have to pay 2k every few years, I am not sure if I can afford that type of expense.

I don't have any quartz Rolex's but, My quartz Omega Seamaster's battery life seems to be about 3 years or so. Keep an eye on it and when the battery dies have it replaced before it leaks and damages the movement. You won't have to have an overhaul done, just the battery replacement cost.

[porschejeff]

I'd remove that diamond bezel but eave the diamond dial. Not a battery operated Rolex. Get it serviced and change the diamond bezel. That's my 2 cents.

[RolieKid]

I have the funds in my savings, but if I can pay it off with automatic payments with no interest, it's just easier to use the bank's money as a float.

[05carbondrz]

Originally Posted by RolieKid

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