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Old 15 May 2010, 09:21 PM   #1
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My wife now has permanent "eye roll syndrome"

As is my wont, I naturallly timed my newly acquired K SD for 24 hours on time .gov and the result as of this morning was a solid -2.

I've been moping around ever since.

It needs no service, no fiddling, is cosmetically flawless, can't be modified short of a nato strap (on order) and is just exactly doing what it is suposed to do, and doing it perfectly.


But it seems that my wife's eye's are stuck in the sarcastic "eye roll" position and won't come un stuck.

Is there a cure for this or am I doomed to be the victim of the "Oh PLEASE...." look for the rest of my natural life?

Please help me...it's really creepy.
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Old 15 May 2010, 09:24 PM   #2
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If she's like mine, get her something sparkly. After 5 years of marriage, I finally bought her the engagement ring we didn't have the money for back then. Now I get to do the eye roll when she ogles her hand...
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Old 15 May 2010, 09:26 PM   #3
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Is there a cure for this or am I doomed to be the victim of the "Oh PLEASE...." look for the rest of my natural life?
No, and yes.....
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Old 15 May 2010, 09:30 PM   #4
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That's a good idea actually, buy her a piece of jewellery or something for which you get to roll your eyes too
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Old 15 May 2010, 09:31 PM   #5
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That's a good idea actually, buy her a piece of jewellery or something for which you get to roll your eyes too
Steve, LOVE YOUR AVATAR!!
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Old 15 May 2010, 10:16 PM   #6
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HA!

I swapped the short dive extender for the long dive extender! I feel so much better now.

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Old 15 May 2010, 10:29 PM   #7
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Steve, LOVE YOUR AVATAR!!
Thanks I made it in Photoshop CS4
I guess it'll do for a while

I'm actually watching Thunderball now for the first time (that I can recall).
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Old 15 May 2010, 10:32 PM   #8
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Thanks I made it in Photoshop CS4
I guess it'll do for a while

I'm actually watching Thunderball now for the first time (that I can recall).
Sweet. I started buying them as they came out on Blu-Ray. I realized that I had never seen a Connery Bond without commercials and not "edit for time".

Best line from Thunderball:
Domino: "What sharp eyes you have Mr. Bond"
Bond: "Wait til you get to my teeth."

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Old 16 May 2010, 01:49 AM   #9
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Every time I buy a new watch I also make a trip to Tiffanys. Usually shuts her up
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Old 16 May 2010, 01:53 AM   #10
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I am on my wife's S**T list right now.
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Old 16 May 2010, 01:59 AM   #11
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That's the only list my wife has...
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Old 16 May 2010, 08:39 AM   #12
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I know a way to fix that.
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Old 16 May 2010, 08:44 AM   #13
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I know a way to fix that.
LOL...I'm always on the lookout for the next ex Mrs. hooliganhooker.
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Old 16 May 2010, 10:59 AM   #14
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If you're after some fiddling, how about getting a GMT, Nat? So much customization, and all the eye rolling you can stand!
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Old 16 May 2010, 11:07 AM   #15
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it is not possible to buy them off. you may think that you have but... get one who doesnt care cause she already knows that its only a watch. no wonder they think that we are the weaker sex. i remember giving lady of the house a motorcycle. 5 weeks later she has a licence, insurance (tags) and off she goes. god talk about war of the sexes. investment yeah right.
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Old 16 May 2010, 11:49 AM   #16
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Did I understand correctly? Your watch is running perfectly, besides being a perfect specimen externally and you're moping?

You really can get by with checking your watch every seven days and for an automatic that will give you a better reading than if you check it several times a day, if that's indeed what you did.

However, I'm no fan of the female eye-roller, especially when women have as many or more things about which they are obsessive compulsive. Think toilet seat and shoes.

I, myself, would reevaluate the relationship, but in your case, you're married and if you intend to stay that way, you're options are more limited than mine would be.

The first suggestion would be to do an assessment of your behavior and ask yourself if perhaps your behavior is in fact worthy of eye-rolling.

I'm a firm believer in the cognitive approach. If you can honestly say that you don't deserve the eye rolling treatment, which if it's not obviously done in jest, is condescending at best and contemptuous at worst, you should sit down with your wife and tell her that while you know that she doesn't understand your hobby, you find it disconcerting for her ridicule your interests.

The advantage of this approach is that you lay out everything that's on your mind all at once in an honest and sincere manner and that you will get an immediate and spontaneous response from her.

The disadvantage is that the response may not be what you were hoping for and may exacerbate the situation.

While giving your love interest a nice gift is never wrong, doing so merely to distract her from your little obsession won't really get across your real message or discourage the behavior in question. On the contrary, it will reinforce the behavior, which is the opposite of your intentions.

So my advice is to be tactfully direct and get the issue settled ASAP.
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Old 16 May 2010, 11:54 AM   #17
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Interesting. I'm moping about his poker chips and knives, and so he's buying me a Rolex. . .
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Old 16 May 2010, 11:56 AM   #18
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one of my ex-wives did the eye roll thing & said the line..."oh, boys & their toys....it's me or the watches"
I grabbed the watch case & said...."be seeing you"
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Did I understand correctly? Your watch is running perfectly, besides being a perfect specimen externally and you're moping?

You really can get by with checking your watch every seven days and for an automatic that will give you a better reading than if you check it several times a day, if that's indeed what you did.

However, I'm no fan of the female eye-roller, especially when women have as many or more things about which they are obsessive compulsive. Think toilet seat and shoes.

I, myself, would reevaluate the relationship, but in your case, you're married and if you intend to stay that way, you're options are more limited than mine would be.

The first suggestion would be to do an assessment of my own behavior and ask yourself if perhaps your behavior is in fact worthy of eye-rolling.

I'm a firm believer in the cognitive approach. If you can honestly say that you don't deserve the eye rolling treatment, which if it's not obviously done in jest, is condescending at best and contemptuous at worst, you should sit down with your wife and tell her that while you know that she doesn't understand your hobby, you find it disconcerting for her ridicule your interests.

The advantage of this approach is that you lay out everything that's on your mind all at once in an honest and sincere manner and that you will get an immediate and spontaneous response from her.

The disadvantage is that the response may not be what you were hoping for and may exacerbate the situation.

While giving your love interest a nice gift is never wrong, doing so merely to distract her from your little obsession won't really get across your real message or discourage the behavior in question. On the contrary, it will reinforce the behavior, which is the opposite of your intentions.

So my advice is to be tactfully direct and get the issue settled ASAP.


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Old 16 May 2010, 12:03 PM   #20
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Interesting. I'm moping about his poker chips and knives, and so he's buying me a Rolex. . .
pokerchips ...cash them in. if he is buying you a watch he cant be putting up shelves at the same time so how can he win.
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Old 16 May 2010, 12:05 PM   #21
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Interesting. I'm moping about his poker chips and knives, and so he's buying me a Rolex. . .
Just watch out grey girl, he may be buying "you" a Deep Sea. That's how we enthusiasts think.
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Old 16 May 2010, 12:09 PM   #22
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Just watch out grey girl, he may be buying "you" a Deep Sea. That's how we enthusiasts think.
Ohh. . .you ARE evil!!

As a matter of fact, he's getting me a used Date and I've been seeing him eyeing a deepsea for himself (new, natch). Now what's that all about?
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Interesting. I'm moping about his poker chips and knives, and so he's buying me a Rolex. . .

does he have a name.
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Old 16 May 2010, 12:11 PM   #24
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Ohh. . .you ARE evil!!

As a matter of fact, he's getting me a used Date and I've been seeing him eyeing a deepsea for himself (new, natch). Now what's that all about?
Darlin' we can rationalize anything
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Old 16 May 2010, 12:13 PM   #25
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Just watch out grey girl, he may be buying "you" a Deep Sea. That's how we enthusiasts think.
yeh ok robert just stay up im going to get the blame any way .
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Old 16 May 2010, 12:15 PM   #26
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does he have a name.
Most of the time it's "sweetheart". . .but not always. . .

hahaha!!!
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Old 16 May 2010, 12:15 PM   #27
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Ohh. . .you ARE evil!!

As a matter of fact, he's getting me a used Date and I've been seeing him eyeing a deepsea for himself (new, natch). Now what's that all about?
that was a good surprise...someone who speaks the same language.
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Old 16 May 2010, 12:16 PM   #28
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Most of the time it's "sweetheart". . .but not always. . .

hahaha!!!

i got called that once.
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Old 16 May 2010, 12:19 PM   #29
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Darlin' we can rationalize anything

robert i will let you off with almost any thing ...where is that bottle of southern comfort.
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I get that look when I am changing straps for my panerai or seen checking out posts like this or watch pics on trf! I always say hey this is like your purses and shoes!
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