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Old 14 January 2013, 06:04 AM   #1
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Remembering my son

About 2 years ago, my wife and I learned that our son would be born with a very significant brain malformation and would probably not live. We were blessed with nearly 21 months of life with him. It's been almost 6 weeks since he passed away.

I write this post tonight and share our blog, not to get sympathy, but in hopes of encouraging someone who might need it. We would not have been able to endure our jouney without the encouragement and inspiration from others around us. I pray that his legacy will live on and just one of you will be helped by his story.

www.theoliverslife.blogspot.com (the past two years in reverse chronological order) - I hope you'll have the time to read from the beginning.
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Old 14 January 2013, 06:06 AM   #2
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My condolences, Zane. That's heartbreaking.
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Old 14 January 2013, 06:09 AM   #3
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I am sorry for you loss, but happy for the time you had with him and the memories you have of him. My sincere condolences to you and your wife.
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Old 14 January 2013, 06:25 AM   #4
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Heartbreaking for sure. God bless. I'm sorry for your loss.
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Old 14 January 2013, 06:29 AM   #5
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Breaks my heart to read this. So sorry for your loss and take my hat off to your strength and will to spread the word. God bless.
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Old 14 January 2013, 06:29 AM   #6
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I am really sorry to read this sad news . . .

We'll light a candle for him . . .

All the strength in the world !
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Old 14 January 2013, 06:30 AM   #7
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I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words.
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Old 14 January 2013, 06:38 AM   #8
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So sorry to hear this, My sincere condolences to you and your wife.
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Old 14 January 2013, 06:43 AM   #9
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Old 14 January 2013, 07:15 AM   #10
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My deepest condolences to you and your wife.
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Old 14 January 2013, 07:19 AM   #11
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Very sad, sorry to hear.
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Old 14 January 2013, 07:23 AM   #12
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Sad to hear. my condolences!
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Old 14 January 2013, 07:28 AM   #13
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So sorry to hear and my thoughts go out to you and your family.
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Old 14 January 2013, 07:31 AM   #14
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Very sorry to hear this.

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Old 14 January 2013, 07:34 AM   #15
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I can't even begin to imagine the pain you and your family are enduring, I hope that your suffering will ease. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
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Old 14 January 2013, 07:45 AM   #16
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My condolences for your loss.
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Old 14 January 2013, 07:47 AM   #17
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My deepest condolences to you and your wife. I hope you find peace knowing he is at peace

I only read a little bit of your blog and can see how this helped you cope with such a heartbreaking experience
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Old 14 January 2013, 07:50 AM   #18
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Heartfelt condolences on the loss of your son. I hope you have comfort for your grief in the coming years.
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Old 14 January 2013, 07:55 AM   #19
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I couldn't even imagine your pain and loss...my sincerest condolences and God bless you an your wife.
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Old 14 January 2013, 08:04 AM   #20
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Old 14 January 2013, 08:59 AM   #21
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Deepest condolences.
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Old 14 January 2013, 09:01 AM   #22
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My condolences, Zane. That's heartbreaking.
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Your story and carrying on is admirable
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Old 14 January 2013, 09:42 AM   #23
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Courage for your days ahead. I know there are many here who would stand shoulder to shoulder with you.
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Old 14 January 2013, 10:42 AM   #24
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Old 14 January 2013, 12:36 PM   #25
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I'm very sorry Zane.
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Old 14 January 2013, 03:19 PM   #26
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I gave my son a nice long hug for you, your family and child.

Thank you for sharing.
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Old 14 January 2013, 03:22 PM   #27
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I am sorry to hear about your loss, my condolences..
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Old 14 January 2013, 03:26 PM   #28
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Sorry for your loss, not many can understand what you have been through. Thank you for sharing and always remember the good times and that he will always be in yours and your wives heart.
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Old 14 January 2013, 03:27 PM   #29
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So Sorry for your heartbreaking loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family
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Old 14 January 2013, 03:32 PM   #30
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My Heartfelt condolances to you and your family. Heartbreaking news.
I hope you and your wife can find the strength to get through this very difficult time.
My thoughts and prayers are with you
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