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Old 7 October 2015, 08:16 AM   #1
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Rude 'how much is it' contribution

At work yesterday, I was dealing with a regular client of ours. A little backstory, he is known as a bullshi**er amongst all of my coworkers. He walks in with a new Movado that I've never seen him wear before. My dad loves Movado and he's had his for over 20 years and the thing still ticks. So I proceeded to compliment his watch with what he responded "2000 dollar watch, no big deal." I chuckled and moved on. I step outside and walk back in to a buddy of mine who is recently starting to get into watch culture talking to him about his watch, 'oh dear' I say to myself. He's going on about how Movado uses Rolex metals and how Movado uses stronger steel than Rolex. I don't say anything, because I'm diplomatic and don't want to offend this arrogant imbecile, after all he is a repeat client and he sends people to us as well. My other coworker gestures to me and says "have you seen his Rolex" and I quickly become uncomfortable. He says "yeah I've seen it" and continues by saying "where'd you get that, at an alley?" At this point I'm still diplomatic and I try to diffuse the situation quickly. Then he goes on and says "how much are your payments on that thing?" And follows by "no really, how much is it" I told him the MSRP and left the room. It was a quite uncomfortable and rude experience.


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Old 7 October 2015, 08:19 AM   #2
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A**holes are hard to love, aren't they?
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Old 7 October 2015, 09:15 AM   #3
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Tough situation...I think you handled it as well as could have been expected.
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Old 7 October 2015, 09:19 AM   #4
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Tough situation...I think you handled it as well as could have been expected.

Not much else I could've done.


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Old 7 October 2015, 09:53 AM   #5
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Never really answer

The few times that has happened to me my response is along the lines " I got it used so it wasn't that much". The only time my conversations about watches involve money is when I'm adding something to my modest collection.
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Old 7 October 2015, 09:58 AM   #6
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There's no right or wrong way to handle situations like this. Since he's a client you have to exercise patience which it sounds like you did.
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Old 7 October 2015, 10:01 AM   #7
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Boy, this dude seems rough to deal with on many fronts. The only people I'll talk actual figures with is one of by brothers (fellow WIS) and others here on the forum since it's mostly a mutual appreciation.
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Old 7 October 2015, 10:03 AM   #8
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Don't feel bad, buddy.I had a guy ask me if I was a drug dealer when he saw me wearing my DayDate......I told him I was in human trafficking(with a very serious face).
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Old 7 October 2015, 10:14 AM   #9
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Don't feel bad, buddy.I had a guy ask me if I was a drug dealer when he saw me wearing my DayDate......I told him I was in human trafficking(with a very serious face).
Classic.
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Old 7 October 2015, 11:12 AM   #10
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Don't feel bad, buddy.I had a guy ask me if I was a drug dealer when he saw me wearing my DayDate......I told him I was in human trafficking(with a very serious face).
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Old 7 October 2015, 11:24 AM   #11
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Don't feel bad, buddy.I had a guy ask me if I was a drug dealer when he saw me wearing my DayDate......I told him I was in human trafficking(with a very serious face).
That is absolutely gorgeous. Consider that stolen

When people are rude to me, I tell them they're being rude. I'm very forward anyway, and it's extremely disarming. Trying to come up with some witty retort only works some of the time so I just say "you're being extremely rude to me, I'd like you to stop or apologize". I say it firmly and never break eye contact. Works very well.
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Old 7 October 2015, 11:42 AM   #12
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It's all yours,Joe......just don't say that to a cop or especially, a federale
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Old 8 October 2015, 03:51 AM   #13
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Don't feel bad, buddy.I had a guy ask me if I was a drug dealer when he saw me wearing my DayDate......I told him I was in human trafficking(with a very serious face).
Best response I've heard.

Reminds me of a line from a movie called "After the Sunset":

Ed: So, uh, what kind of business are you in, Max?
Max Burdett: I have a bunch of sweatshops in the Philippines.
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Max Burdett: You should see those kids make those hats.
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Old 8 October 2015, 04:55 AM   #14
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Best response I've heard.

Reminds me of a line from a movie called "After the Sunset":

Ed: So, uh, what kind of business are you in, Max?
Max Burdett: I have a bunch of sweatshops in the Philippines.
Ed: Oh.
Sheila: Oh.
Max Burdett: You should see those kids make those hats.
Great movie.

Max's Panerai was also only "a few grand."

Those were the days....
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Old 7 October 2015, 10:02 AM   #15
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Wow. i wish i could be in the office and show him a real mans watch especially at my age (27) he would be embarrassed to talk like that.
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Old 8 October 2015, 04:34 AM   #16
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Wow. i wish i could be in the office and show him a real mans watch especially at my age (27) he would be embarrassed to talk like that.
Not sure why you think Movado is not a real mans watch. They have been making watches alot longer than Rolex. The OP even stated his fathers favorite watch is a Movado and still ticking after 20 years.
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Old 7 October 2015, 10:09 AM   #17
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Old 7 October 2015, 10:10 AM   #18
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The "How would I know how much it costs? I got it off a dead guy." always seems appropriate in these situations.
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Old 7 October 2015, 10:16 AM   #19
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I'd say something to the effect that the cost is irrelevant, and that the piece is priceless to you
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Old 7 October 2015, 10:17 AM   #20
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Sounds like he is just jealous, don't feel uncomfortable he asked for it.
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Old 7 October 2015, 10:19 AM   #21
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It sounds like he was intentionally trying to get a rise out of you - if you let him get to you, he wins. Next time just say it was a gift, then you can claim ignorance on price and point of sale.
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Old 7 October 2015, 10:21 AM   #22
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My grandfather told me, "Don't say anything, just get'm in their pocket book!"
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Old 7 October 2015, 10:22 AM   #24
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That is very irritating. You handled it better than I probably would. There are those people all around though.
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Maybe he is over compensating for something that may be little
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Old 7 October 2015, 10:29 AM   #26
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Maybe he is over compensating for something that may be little
Very well may be the cause!

Pretty weird how people can get like this and let jealousy eat them inside out. If I see a friend or whatever with a nice watch, before I even got my Rolex, I'd genuinely be happy for them and it would just push me to work harder for mine. Maybe the fact that I'm barely 20 years old and doing better than him probably made it even worse for him..
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Old 8 October 2015, 02:03 AM   #27
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Very well may be the cause!

Pretty weird how people can get like this and let jealousy eat them inside out. If I see a friend or whatever with a nice watch, before I even got my Rolex, I'd genuinely be happy for them and it would just push me to work harder for mine. Maybe the fact that I'm barely 20 years old and doing better than him probably made it even worse for him..
I think you handled the original situation well. However, then you say something like this...You really have no idea if you're doing "better than him", and a watch is certainly not an indicator of that. If that's how you really think then maybe you don't come across as diplomatic as you think you do, as statements like that reek of arrogance.

My CEO wears a 20 year old Tag, I wear a Rolex. Am I doing better than him? Not a chance in hell.
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Old 8 October 2015, 02:27 AM   #28
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I think you handled the original situation well. However, then you say something like this...You really have no idea if you're doing "better than him", and a watch is certainly not an indicator of that. If that's how you really think then maybe you don't come across as diplomatic as you think you do, as statements like that reek of arrogance.

My CEO wears a 20 year old Tag, I wear a Rolex. Am I doing better than him? Not a chance in hell.

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I think you handled the original situation well. However, then you say something like this...You really have no idea if you're doing "better than him", and a watch is certainly not an indicator of that. If that's how you really think then maybe you don't come across as diplomatic as you think you do, as statements like that reek of arrogance.

My CEO wears a 20 year old Tag, I wear a Rolex. Am I doing better than him? Not a chance in hell.
Good point, different people have different priorities for their luxury items.

A friend of mine said something about my Sub-C when I got it, asking how much it cost. I told him it cost less than 10% of the cost of his motor home and I can enjoy it every day. Then I added that it won't depreciate nearly as much either, and in 10 years would be worth more than his motor home.
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Old 7 October 2015, 10:22 AM   #30
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When people get like that about Rolex it's all just deep-seeded jealousy.
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