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Old 25 June 2016, 01:36 PM   #1
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New DD-40

My wife passed away a couple of months ago after an extended fight with cancer. Prior to her passing, we discussed what we would do with some of her more ‘significant’ items. I got her a Rolex Datejust as a wedding present and we thought that it would be a good idea to trade/flip both my Sub and her Datejust for a new Rolex. We were thinking that the new Rolex would symbolically represent both our watches during our marriage.

I wanted PM but something that would be more on the conservative, ‘under the radar’, side.

I called my salesperson at the local AD. I’ve been working with her for many years and actually purchased my wife’s engagement ring and Datejust (and another Datejust for my mom as her wedding present) from her. My wife and her really hit it off and she actually loaned my wife a designer necklace (something borrowed) for our wedding.

I asked if she had a WG DD-40 in stock with the silver or rhodium stripe dial. She only had a silver quadrant in WG. I went down and tried on the watch and was about 80% there. I didn’t really consider the quadrant but it immediately caught my eye. However, I didn’t want to make any snap decisions with something so expensive. I was heading to Maui to carry out my wife’s final wishes so I told her that I would stop by Barron & Leeds and make a decision. B&L had several in stock and I knew that the silver quadrant was the one. The dark rhodium stripe was a close second.

Came back home and had her order me one so I could be the first to handle it.

It ran about 1 second slow per day for the first four or five days. Since then, it’s been keeping perfect time.

I love everything about the watch. The slightest yellow note in the metal. How the PCLs contrast with the outer links. How the watch actually feels warm on the wrist. Etc.

My wife’s favorite hobby was shopping. The only thing she liked more was when we went shopping for me, which was a rarity. I know that she’s tickled that I bought something nice for myself and also, what the watch means to both of us.

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Old 25 June 2016, 01:39 PM   #2
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Condolences on the passing of your wife. An amazing story and great idea for an item of remembrance. And a gorgeous Rolex.
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Old 25 June 2016, 01:39 PM   #3
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I'm sorry for your loss. This was a very touching post. The DD looks fantastic.


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Old 25 June 2016, 01:42 PM   #4
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Sorry for your loss. A very nice way to remember her and your time together. The watch looks great but the meaning behind it is so much stronger!
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Old 25 June 2016, 03:06 PM   #5
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Thanks for sharing. Given what you when through and the story about how you came to the watch, sounds like this will be something you will cherish for many, many years to come. Best wishes.
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Old 25 June 2016, 03:41 PM   #6
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sad to read but a touching story. love the DJ.
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Old 25 June 2016, 04:11 PM   #7
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Sorry for your loss. Touching remembrance. Well done.
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Old 25 June 2016, 04:14 PM   #8
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That's very sad but a great way to remember. Wear it proud! that watch is absolutely beautiful. Not sure if your big into engravings, but you should engrave the case back!


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Old 25 June 2016, 04:42 PM   #9
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Must have been a tough one trading in your wife's watch but at least you'll think of her every time you have your new watch on
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Old 25 June 2016, 04:45 PM   #10
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That is a touching story.
This is one example where a Rolex can mean so much more than a device to tell you to the time
Wear it with fond memories
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Old 25 June 2016, 05:16 PM   #11
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Condolences to you. I'm sure she's smiling right now at the thought of this. What a great way to celebrate her memory.
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Old 25 June 2016, 06:06 PM   #12
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That hurt to read but I'm glad you shared this and thank you. I wish you the very best and it is a stunning timepiece. Very tasteful and the quadrant is subtle but not unnoticed. Elegant.
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Old 25 June 2016, 06:23 PM   #13
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My condolences to you. Great story and gorgeous DD.
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Old 25 June 2016, 06:30 PM   #14
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My sincerest condolences.

That hurt to read.

What a truly special watch.
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Old 25 June 2016, 07:49 PM   #15
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Sad for your loss; may she rest in peace and wear the watch in good health sir.
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Old 25 June 2016, 07:56 PM   #16
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Sorry about your loss.
It's a beautiful watch and and nice token of your memories together.
Thanks for posting.
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Old 25 June 2016, 08:23 PM   #17
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Sorry for the loss of your wife. Excellent job on getting something to remember her! Congratulations
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Old 25 June 2016, 08:25 PM   #18
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Sorry for your loss as well and I am sure that DD 40 will have more meaning than any watch that you ever have owned or ever will own!
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Old 25 June 2016, 08:43 PM   #19
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I am very sorry for your loss.
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Old 25 June 2016, 08:43 PM   #20
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What a lovely story and so sorry for your loss. The WG DD40 is a perfect choice to remember her by. Thanks for sharing and take care of yourself.
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Old 25 June 2016, 08:48 PM   #21
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That is a very touching story and sorry for your loss. It's a beautiful watch with a special meaning. Enjoy it and the memories of the good times it represents.
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Old 25 June 2016, 08:54 PM   #22
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Sorry for your loss. Brings added value to a great piece. Enjoy!


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Old 25 June 2016, 09:04 PM   #23
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My sincerest condolences on the loss of your wife, you have to know that she is smiling down on you through this journey, you'll think of her every time you look at that gorgeous watch. Wear it in the best of health, thank you for sharing such a moving story.
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Old 25 June 2016, 09:17 PM   #24
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Very sorry for your loss, my condolonces, thank you for sharing your personal journey through cancer, enjoy the watch as if it is hers.
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Old 25 June 2016, 09:29 PM   #25
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Very sorry for your loss. Glad you felt like you could share it with us. Beautiful dd40.
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Old 25 June 2016, 09:41 PM   #26
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Very sorry for your loss, and the DD40 is a beautiful way to honour her memory everyday.
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Old 25 June 2016, 09:58 PM   #27
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Sorry for your loss. The DD40 is great choice.....congrats!
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Old 25 June 2016, 10:18 PM   #28
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Very sorry to hear this. That watch is a beauty and should never leave your wrist!
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Old 25 June 2016, 10:23 PM   #29
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I'm sorry for your loss...what a special way to remember your wife...wear it in good health!
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Old 25 June 2016, 10:33 PM   #30
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I am sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing such a personal story. The idea of the watch symbolizing your marriage is a great one, as is the watch you chose.
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