Prayers please, silly reason

[Rockrolex]

Originally Posted by Welshwatchman

I deleted it twice prior to the person's resurrection (NPI) of the post.

I've also deleted previous posts of his where his particular world views are injected.

Next time it happens it's a straight out ban.

Originally Posted by Welshwatchman

Thanks for the report, Lisa.

I hadn't read the misogynist detail. It seemed like vanilla safe quoted extracts.

I've removed the nasty stuff and am waiting for my temper to simmer a little before I do anything rash.

You've been too nice, Paul. I would have offed the sucker after the second post, if not sooner.

Adam, you will be watched very closely by the mod staff. One more preachy post by you will be your last one here, if you get my point. Cut out the bible quoting stuff and you may survive here. Not everyone shares your religious beliefs.

[Welshwatchman]

Originally Posted by Rockrolex

You've been too nice, Paul. I would have offed the sucker after the second post, if not sooner.

Adam, you will be watched very closely by the mod staff. One more preachy post by you will be your last one here, if you get my point. Cut out the bible quoting stuff and you may survive here. Not everyone shares your religious beliefs.

Just snuffing out the competition aren't you, Ed.

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[TheVTCGuy]

Originally Posted by Rockrolex

You've been too nice, Paul. I would have offed the sucker after the second post, if not sooner.

Adam, you will be watched very closely by the mod staff. One more preachy post by you will be your last one here, if you get my point. Cut out the bible quoting stuff and you may survive here. Not everyone shares your religious beliefs.

Originally Posted by Welshwatchman

Just snuffing out the competition aren't you, Ed.

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OK! THAT'S ENOUGH!!!! You two are getting too aggressive! I am sorry, but I am reporting both of you to the Mods

[Rockrolex]

Originally Posted by Welshwatchman

Just snuffing out the competition aren't you, Ed.

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One might think that. I couldn't possibly comment, however.

[Rockrolex]

Originally Posted by TheVTCGuy

OK! THAT'S ENOUGH!!!! You two are getting too aggressive! I am sorry, but I am reporting both of you to the Mods

As for you, my friend, go back to mooning over your lost loves (and Jocke).

[lavaman]

thanks again folks.

[Dr.Brian]

I was going to send watches, but I'll send you some positive energy instead.
This too shall pass.
The best medicine is to move on as quick as you're able, and focus on what's good in your life.

(and maybe a wee bit of single malt)

[Dr.Brian]

Forgot the link.
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&sour...S0-MfUNqf0IHxQ

[unclesallie]

Originally Posted by Lisa

Families are strange. My mom's dad refused to have anything to do with any of us because Mom didn't marry the hometown boy he approved of. We never met him.

Wow, Lisa, now isn't that really 'old school' or however people refer to it.
People sometimes insist on limiting their options and eveyone else's at the same time.........a real shame, your grandfather reacted the way he did.

[Lisa]

Originally Posted by unclesallie

Wow, Lisa, now isn't that really 'old school' or however people refer to it.
People sometimes insist on limiting their options and eveyone else's at the same time.........a real shame, your grandfather reacted the way he did.

Well, it was the 1940s.

Lavaman, I'm still troubled by your girlfriend's behavior. There has to be more the the situation. As has been mentioned before, the problem may very well lie within her own family. Families may seem pretty normal to outsiders, but, well, insiders know better.

[scott k]

Only my own opinon why does meeting someone's father really matter? I have been through what you have and it hurts...and it will get better. Our problems were a lot more serious meeting her father

[ducatidoc]

Originally Posted by Lisa

Well, it was the 1940s.

Lavaman, I'm still troubled by your girlfriend's behavior. There has to be more the the situation. As has been mentioned before, the problem may very well lie within her own family. Families may seem pretty normal to outsiders, but, well, insiders know better.

Originally Posted by scott k

Only my own opinon why does meeting someone's father really matter? I have been through what you have and it hurts...and it will get better. Our problems were a lot more serious meeting her father

A quick $.02. Any time I hear somebody say "you're marrying [the person], not the family", I can tell you from experience, they're out of their mind.

[Rock]

Life's a roller coaster isn't it.
My experience has been that often with the benefit of hindsight, things happen for the best.
Hope that turns out to be the case for you as well.
Not religious (and would miss any of my watches terribly) so will send positive vibes instead.

[Bangel]

Originally Posted by Rock

My experience has been that often with the benefit of hindsight, things happen for the best.

Very well said and that is my belief too.

Lavaman, my thoughts are with you. Hang in there.

[Tony-GB]

Lavaman, things can get misunderstood on the net, so I write this respectfully: don't look at the past. Don't analyse the past. Turn your back on it & look forward. Hindsight is a perfect science- we all now what we should have done looking back.

The past is a useful tool for planning the future. Use it objectively. Engineer a future where you'll meet someone who will introduce you to all of her family & they will appreciate you & you family. Don't give your ex a second thought. Use your energy for creating a more comfortable future that is suited to you & your son.

You're not a silly boy at all. You're human with human strengths & weakness.

Remember: "When you're going through hell- keep going"

[lavaman]

good karma today please for a little boy who does not understand why its been 5 months since he has seen his friend, who used to come over every weekend. He doesn't understand why they don't play anymore and why she doesn't tuck him in, or go to the park with him. And he doesn't understand why her and Daddy had an argument and why they cant just patch it up. And Dad doesn't really understand either.....but my son thinks it's his fault. And it tears me apart. (His mom died a few years ago)

[cop414]

Originally Posted by lavaman

good karma today please for a little boy who does not understand why its been 5 months since he has seen his friend, who used to come over every weekend. He doesn't understand why they don't play anymore and why she doesn't tuck him in, or go to the park with him. And he doesn't understand why her and Daddy had an argument and why they cant just patch it up. And Dad doesn't really understand either.....but my son thinks it's his fault. And it tears me apart. (His mom died a few years ago)

Thoughts and prayers sent your way, hang in there, it's going to take time.

[wantonebad]

Originally Posted by Dr.Brian

Forgot the link.
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&sour...S0-MfUNqf0IHxQ

Good video!! Mindshare engineers did the consulting and building work, they came from MIT and Cal Tech.

[swils8610]

Hang in there....it's darkest before the dawn. Things will get better.


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[MichaelB_Can]

Originally Posted by dba

Tough times don't last; tough people do. Best of luck.

Best Quote I've heard in a long time .... I hope the OP takes this to heart !
All the best !


Mike B , Canada ⌚

[malarky_hk]

Hang in there Lavaman. You're strong enough to have made the right decision. So you're defnitely strong enough to make it through!

Good karma coming your way.....